[RubberKettle]

Men and Women cannot be 'just friends.' This is a FACT.

'Lets just be friends'...'I think I like you more as a friend' etc....this is all shit. It pretty much means she does not want to sleep with you and has no intention of creating a relationship. Bitches pull this kinda shit because they think you can treat her like one of her so called 'guy friends.' These 'guy friends' are gay or delusional about their own situation involving this female.

Tell her whatever you want, but don't interact with this girl in the future. By becoming her 'friend' you will severely inhibit your ability to get past her.

Best advice I can give you is get your mind and body right. This means going to bed early and waking early. Getting in the gym or doing some cardio. Don't eat out during the week. Focus on yourself for a while and you will find it much easier to get over your feelings. Just stay busy and time will heal all.

[PharaohUB]

Don't sweat it bud. I have been there 100 times. I have always dated younger girls. She sounds 21. I dated 18-21 year olds for about 7-8 years, and it was all the same crap. They are all exactly the same. They are hott, cheap to hang out with, and have less hangups from the past than older chicks. They know it too and know this is what every guy from the age of 15 - 85 desires, so they walk all over you because they have numbers on their side.

That texting you being friends is total bullshit. It's the most annoying/obnoxious/immature text a girl who fcked up should ever send. She doesn't want you back man, she just wants to know that she COULD have you back.

I'm 27 now, and I nabbed a 23 year old a year or so ago with her shit together. It's amazing how much girls will change, when they leave college and the reality of the real world settles in. In addition to the reality check, all of the attention they were getting 2 years ago, is disappearing very quickly. Girls are evolutionary wired to always look for the next best thing. The only way to beat that innate need, is to make them fall in love with you. Love is just an evolutionary trick, because it is beneficial when you are having children to keep a stable mate around who will help you raise your young. I am kind of going off on a tangent here. But what I am saying is you need to get over this girl, and move on. She doesn't sound like she is ready for love if she is with another guy so quick, and then still texting you. And even when she is ready. It's never going to work between you two. Relationships are hard enough, but if every fight ends in whatever bullshit caused you to break up the first time it is doomed from the start.

I also agree with Rubber get your shit together. Go to the gym, work on your career. You are 24. Figure out what kind of girl you want. Then figure out what kind of guy a girl that you would want is looking for. Then go become that man. 25-35 is the most desirable age to be as a man. Don't **** it up.

[tokio]

Listen to the men in here thats been through it. Keep good company and hit the weights. It helps to keep your mind off things and try not to drink so much. I know the feeling. A woman who can move on that easily is a biitch not worth keeping around. Figure out what kind of person you want to be and work hard to become that man. A woman will come along one day and appreciate that.

[MysteryMung]

You'll never be able to find "the one", until you crash and burn through a few whores and skanks along the way. Keep your head up bro.

[chopperocker]

love hurts, but the next go round will be way better brother!!!

[iFrat]

If you have any nude pics she has sent you over the course of your relationship......

Now is the time to post them.

[legendmatt34]

Go bang a stripper..

[acarmelo1]

Go bang a stripper..

I think I will do this maybe on thursday LOL
BTW Nice AVATAR!!!!!

Going out today with a lady friend for Ice Cream, which I cant eat cuz I am on a diet now. LOL

[Deuce]

Carmy

If you need to talk pal I am here. I've been through this before. Hard time of the year too.

[konck]

Go find a guy you sound like your more suited for being gay

[Delicious]

Go find a guy you sound like your more suited for being gay

That is never the answer, you have to live with that S hit the rest of your life.

[lesterdymond]

CARMELO GET A F-CKING GRIP ON YOURSELF DO YOU REALLY THINK KILLING YOURSELF WOULD SOLVE ANYTHING RELATIONSHIPS END EVERY DAY YOUR JUST LUCKY YOU GOT OUT BEFORE KIDS WERE INVOLVED AND YOUR PAYING CHILD SUPPORT FOR 20 YEARS.DONT LOOK AT THIS DAY AS DEPRESSING COUNT YOUR BLESSING THAT THIS BROAD DIDNT TAKE YOU TO THE CLEANERS SHE IS OUT OF YOUR LIFE NOW MOVE ON.

CARMWLO YOUR NOT GOING THROUGH A MESSY DIVORCE,YOU DONT HAVE ANY KIDS WITH HER,SHE ISNT GOING TO TAKE YOU FOR EVERY PENNY YOU EVER MAKE,KID YOU GOT LUCKY NOW GO OUT AN CELEBRATE AND DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE AGAIN

CAN YOU BELIEVE THIS KID HE IS WORRIED ABOUT AN EXPENSIVE CHRISTMAS PRESENT HE DOESNT EVEN REALIZE JUST HOW LUCKY HE GOT BY HER BREAKING UP TRUST ME CARMELO YOU GOT A BIG BREAK

JUST THINK IF YOU MARRIED HER AND SHE LEFT YOU AFTER A YEAR AND SAY YOU HAD A KID HOW MUCH MONEY DO YOU THINK THAT WOULD HAVE COST YOU OVER THE NEXT 20 YEARS YOU GOT AWAY CHEAP

100% right. Please post a month from now and tell us how silly you feel. It will be all good man. Trust everyone in this thread but you right now ok.

[acarmelo1]

Hi guys, how are you all doing?
I have had some good Days, and some really bad days.

[Louisvillekid1]

chin up pal,

we've all been there and it's rough...

just got get back out there and meet someone else...

stop going on her facebook and looking at her uploads...

[ttrace35]

Next time don't get too hooked on a chick. These hoes can pull this shit at any time. Always keep that in the back of your mind, and have a plan B(a bitch on the side).

[paranoyd androyd]

you sound like a complete fukkin pussy melo man the fukk up you fat prikk

[Kindred]

Hi guys, I dont know if I should write this or not, but I think it will help me.

I just ended a relation with my GF and she is now seeing another guy.

I am so hurt, and I feel like I was a joke,

I was helping this girl, I was always there to help her.

I gave her money when she crashed he so she could fix it.

I bought her a really expensive X-Mas present.

I feel really depressed and desperate.

I cant sleep, cant think, cant work.

I just want to end it...

That's a lesson, only give money to whores when it's for sex, which is what you should be doing now instead of thinking bout your ex go get a BJ from a hooker

[ncsubowen]

That's a lesson, only give money to whores when it's for sex, which is what you should be doing now instead of thinking bout your ex go get a BJ from a hooker

What do you think dating is anyway? 95% of it is just an extended hooker/john relationship. The money stops, so does the cooch. What did you expect?

I'm sorry to hear it but man, get out there and rail some hotties. It'll make you feel better (it won't, but its worth it anyway).

[sickler]

Hi guys, how are you all doing?
I have had some good Days, and some really bad days.

Hopefully the good days outnumber that bad

You back with that chick?

[BroncosFN]

You are wasting valuable days of your youth on one girl. Be with as many women as you can. Sow your oats and be safe about it.

I was you at your age. Trust me I know of which I speak.

Go have fun!

[DOMINATER]

arcmelo, I understand no worse feeling losing your girl sorry buddy.You need to find someone as soon as possible, try to not get any news from anyone she knows. if you need help notify me we will have some private messages. Just remember you can do things that you couldn't before

[hels]

arcmelo, I understand no worse feeling losing your girl sorry buddy.You need to find someone as soon as possible, try to not get any news from anyone she knows. if you need help notify me we will have some private messages. Just remember you can do things that you couldn't before

Sounds kinda gay pal

[ShawNee922]

Stay away from Dominator melo!!

The last thing you need right now is a rebound relationship

[stevenash]

Men and Women cannot be 'just friends.'

Yes they can, I've had this one female freind 'with benefits' for years.
No wine, no dine, just two friends with a lot of common interests, thing is, she liked sex, a lot.
Not a whore, not a slut, just a regular working stiff female friend that liked the bedroom sports more than me.

You get one of those female friends 'with benefits' relationship, you hold on to that for dear life.

No baggage, no games, no commitments, no pre-nups............

[Thehusker]

Hooker

[Inkwell77]

arcmelo, I understand no worse feeling losing your girl sorry buddy.You need to find someone as soon as possible, try to not get any news from anyone she knows. if you need help notify me we will have some private messages. Just remember you can do things that you couldn't before

[sickler]

Sounds kinda gay pal

Yeah my PM's are set to accept messages from females only.

[ebbearsfb1]

Take a dump in a bag, put it on her front porch, let her stop it out with her boots.... that'll show you moved on

[acarmelo1]

Stay away from Dominator melo!!

The last thing you need right now is a rebound relationship

This was Super Funny

Dominator Thanks Pal!!

[paranoyd androyd]

hopefully you're not beating off to her still that shit gets in your head

[DOMINATER]

AS USUAL A BUNCH OF CLOWNS, trying to help the guy get by a tuff time, I had it done to me and ended up with no baseball ride to a big time college, decided couldn't take the pressure at eigteen being 1000 miles away, and I did play double a ball years later ,but would have done better going to baseball school , sorry if it brought up some memories I also have a 40 year old son that went the same way as all of us.Fukked by the pussycat.

[acarmelo1]

New GF guys

[Masu485]

I wish I could feel happy for you, but this isn't the way to go. I know you will just think I am hating though, and listen to all the sheep in here who will say "congrats, she hot" and "way to go bro".

[onlooker]

New GF guys

Terrible fuking picture. What did you use, a 1999 Kyocera to take that?

Congrats, she hot. Way to go bro.