Not even close, guys want a girl in there life a ton more then vice versa. A lady can wait and wait for that guy to come along, if he doesn't it's ok. Men need that girl in there life so dearly. I attribute this to a girls looks in her face and body..it's not even close. Men have been known and continue to flirt with others and screw around. I don't think it has to do with men are the agresors or anything, it's just that one species desires the other more then vice versa. It's not even close. This means guys are going to find it harder and harder to find that girl in there life. As we get older, girls have kids and they are more then happy with there lives centered around there kids and some friends/family. Vice versa, guy is a single dad with kids, he needs that girl in his life!!!!! I always believed very few things are 50/50..this clearly is one of them. I'm not talking about who wants sex more, im talking a relationship!!!