1. 12-23-13 11:58 AM #1
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    Really tough thing I'm going through...

    I'm married but I gotta be honest here I'm talking to 2 other women now.. just friendship only.. I would never cheat.. however I have to say the temptation is there.. never thought my heart could feel something more when I'm already in love.. If anybody has been through this.. not sure how to handle this.. who ever thought 3 women would like me so much...
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  2. 12-23-13 12:17 PM #2
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    Sammy, we call those hallucinations.

    Individuals with schizophrenia may experience hallucinations (most reported are hearing voices), delusions (often bizarre or persecutory in nature), anddisorganized thinking and speech. The latter may range from loss of train of thought, to sentences only loosely connected in meaning, to incoherence known as word salad in severe cases. Social withdrawal, sloppiness of dress and hygiene, and loss of motivation and judgment are all common in schizophrenia.[
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  3. 12-23-13 12:30 PM #3
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    Be a man...Tell your wife you are done. If the thoughts are there...action will soon follow...I don't mind a cheater...but HATE liars...
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  4. 12-23-13 12:36 PM #4
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaperTrail07 View Post
    Be a man...Tell your wife you are done. If the thoughts are there...action will soon follow...I don't mind a cheater...but HATE liars...
    First of all I never lied, we only chat on the phone.. I don't cheat because that's low and sneaky.. I love my wife and never said I want to walk away.. I'm saying that I happen to have feelings for other women
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  5. 12-23-13 12:37 PM #5
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    Sammy, when did you get married? In one of the videos you made last year, you said you were single and that was why you had so much time to cap games.
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  6. 12-23-13 12:42 PM #6
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  7. 12-23-13 12:51 PM #7
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philly-Pride33 View Post
    I'm married but I gotta be honest here I'm talking to 2 other MEN now.. just friendship only.. I would never cheat.. however I have to say the temptation is there.. never thought my heart could feel something more when I'm already in love.. If anybody has been through this.. not sure how to handle this...

    yep the pro gay sbr is full of homos you can relate to
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  8. 12-23-13 12:59 PM #8
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    Sammys "wife" is 90. Dont believe me? Ask him.
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  9. 12-23-13 01:05 PM #9
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    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
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  10. 12-23-13 01:09 PM #10
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    sammy woo's women by ripping off his shirt and telling them he talks to god on the phone.
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    does your wife know that you have these friendships?
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  12. 12-23-13 01:41 PM #12
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    Every situation is different. Just went through this myself. We worked through it and thank god we did, the best thing that could have happened. Begin by looking at the man in the mirror and go from there. The grass is rarely greener on the other side.

    And remember, it always feels good to be liked. Especially by people you didn't know liked you before. Ego boost. Your wife probably made you feel this way at one time. So whats gonna happen in 5 years from now if you were to divorce and remarry? You'll be in the same boat making the dame mistake.

    New pussy isn't worth it bro.
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  13. 12-23-13 01:42 PM #13
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swinging Johnson View Post
    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
    This is real shittt ^
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  14. 12-23-13 01:54 PM #14
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    Quote Originally Posted by sweep View Post
    pound all 3, you only live once

    I can't do that.. wouldn't be right.. I believe in karma and you and I both know I'd be getting the worst of it..
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  15. 12-23-13 01:56 PM #15
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit View Post
    Sammy, when did you get married? In one of the videos you made last year, you said you were single and that was why you had so much time to cap games.
    I'm a married man now.. I made those videos last year.. any new ones with have me with a beard and I gained some weight sadly..
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  16. 12-23-13 01:58 PM #16
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swinging Johnson View Post
    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
    OK, good question.. Well, 99% of the talks have been friendship but with one I did talk to her sweet.. so yes I'd be OK if she heard the talks
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  17. 12-23-13 01:59 PM #17
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    Quote Originally Posted by rthoughton View Post
    does your wife know that you have these friendships?
    Fair question.. by the way happy to see your Eagles pic there.. we're the same for that. NO, she doesn't know about the friendships..but only because I think she wouldn't understand..she has guy friends and it doesn't bother me
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  18. 12-23-13 02:02 PM #18
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swinging Johnson View Post
    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
    Spot on.
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  19. 12-23-13 02:02 PM #19
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Kraken View Post
    Every situation is different. Just went through this myself. We worked through it and thank god we did, the best thing that could have happened. Begin by looking at the man in the mirror and go from there. The grass is rarely greener on the other side.

    And remember, it always feels good to be liked. Especially by people you didn't know liked you before. Ego boost. Your wife probably made you feel this way at one time. So whats gonna happen in 5 years from now if you were to divorce and remarry? You'll be in the same boat making the dame mistake.

    New pussy isn't worth it bro.
    Great post.. I'll say this It's not about the sex.. I don't like the women I'm talking to just to get that.. I really like talking to them and I make them both happy and they say how funny I am. I don't want to leave my wife, however to be honest.. we don't have sex that often and I have no idea why..
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  20. 12-23-13 02:20 PM #20
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    Just don't cross the line.... talking/flirting is fine but don't let it go any further. Keep your vows and your promise.
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  21. 12-23-13 02:36 PM #21
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    Quote Originally Posted by chipper View Post
    Just don't cross the line.... talking/flirting is fine but don't let it go any further. Keep your vows and your promise.
    Agreed! I won't cross the line because I want to be a faithful spouse and I'd be sad as hell if she fell for another guy and left me...
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  22. 12-23-13 02:50 PM #22
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    Jesus fck you got fatter??!
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  23. 12-23-13 02:52 PM #23
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    If his wifes name is Hellen i'll sht my pants!
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  24. 12-23-13 03:04 PM #24
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    You are married. You shouldn't be romantically involved with other women.

    What's so tough? I don't understand.
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  25. 12-23-13 03:24 PM #25
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyFlyers View Post
    You are married. You shouldn't be romantically involved with other women.

    What's so tough? I don't understand.
    Wow, another Philly guy..I'm in my element. I'm NOT romantically involved with any women other than my wife..did you even read my post.. I said I was talking on the phone to 2 women.. just a friendship, but I was feeling something for both of them in a little way.. I know how to be a good husband..
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    Quote Originally Posted by Swinging Johnson View Post
    If you would allow your wife to listen to those conversations word for word then you're good. If you wouldn't then you're already cheating.
    Bare bones fukkin truth here.
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  27. 12-23-13 05:15 PM #27
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    Good lord. Dead as a hammer.
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  28. 12-23-13 05:20 PM #28
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    Quote Originally Posted by Philly-Pride33 View Post
    Wow, another Philly guy..I'm in my element. I'm NOT romantically involved with any women other than my wife..did you even read my post.. I said I was talking on the phone to 2 women.. just a friendship, but I was feeling something for both of them in a little way.. I know how to be a good husband..
    You ARE in your element haha. Philly taking over SBR.

    You said you have romantic feelings for these other 2 women, yes?

    Simple answer, bro.

    You are married. Don't get involved. If your wife was doing what you are doing to her with two other men......how would you feel?
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    Sammy, where did you meet your wife at?
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  30. 12-23-13 05:47 PM #30
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kermit View Post
    Sammy, where did you meet your wife at?
    POF
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyFlyers View Post
    You ARE in your element haha. Philly taking over SBR.

    You said you have romantic feelings for these other 2 women, yes?

    Simple answer, bro.

    You are married. Don't get involved. If your wife was doing what you are doing to her with two other men......how would you feel?
    I hear ya on both counts.. I'd feel like shit..
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  32. 12-23-13 09:15 PM #32
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    Make the two other women play your plays for a week. They'll be gone faster than shirt through a goose.......
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    Already cheating brah, end the shit and live your life. Your wife deserves that too.
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  34. 12-23-13 10:37 PM #34
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    Fat fckng Sammy.....married a 90 year old.
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  35. 12-23-13 10:39 PM #35
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    Not having sex? Seems to be bothering you. Start by looking in the mirror. Best advice I ever got. Go from there.
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