[nobs]

I am asking the question seriously, because I am currently in some trouble at work for liking a 17 year old girl. We are friends, and I bought her a birthday present which my superiors found out about and they think its a huge deal. Yes, I like this girl in that way. Yes, I do work with a 17 year old girl. And yes, matters are made worse because I am her boss.

Be serious please, but can you tell me am I some sicko or are they blowing thus up out of proportion ? Of course, either way they win because they are the owners of the company, but i am just wondering, I am so sick that I, a 31 year old man am attracted to a 17 year old female?

And just to let you know, nothing has happened between us. I just bought her a birthday present and it got back to the owners, and they way they act you would think I boned this girl on company property.

TIA

[nobs]

I just want to add.

This girl is 17 1/2 years old. She is mixed. She is so freaking beautiful, and she has probably had sex more times than I have. So this aint some innocent little child, but just the same she is 17.

[CanuckG]

Stay away...especially if co-workers

[brahmabull117]

no there's obviously nothing wrong with it


a pedophile is a man who likes 8 or 9 year old kids. Most 17 year olds nowadays are fully developed anyways and might as well be adults



I would tell you that it's not worth the legal risk to pursue a relationship. Wait till they're 18


oh and also, they're absolutely horrendous material for relationships. But I think you know that anyways

[BettingWizard]

to have sex with? no.

relationship? yes.

[RudyRuetigger]

dont expect to move up

[stevex]

Chris Hansen won't approve, that's for sure.

[nobs]

worse, she is subordinate. I am her boss. But I am her friend too. Just bought her a birthday present, Thats all

[No coincidences]

I am asking the question seriously, because I am currently in some trouble at work for liking a 17 year old girl. We are friends, and I bought her a birthday present which my superiors found out about and they think its a huge deal. Yes, I like this girl in that way. Yes, I do work with a 17 year old girl. And yes, matters are made worse because I am her boss.

Be serious please, but can you tell me am I some sicko or are they blowing thus up out of proportion ? Of course, either way they win because they are the owners of the company, but i am just wondering, I am so sick that I, a 31 year old man am attracted to a 17 year old female?

And just to let you know, nothing has happened between us. I just bought her a birthday present and it got back to the owners, and they way they act you would think I boned this girl on company property.

TIA

So nothing has happened, but you'd like for that to change....

You do know about statutory rape laws, right?

[brahmabull117]

Stay away...especially if co-workers

yup, sounds like an easy recipe for the OP to get fired

[Footballtime]

Well i can say as a grown man, 14 years is to much of a difference at both of you ages, now if you were 50 and her 36, i would have a different opinion. I have children that age, and if my daughter ever brought a 31 year old man home, there would be problems. Nothing wrong with the present...................... But i would leave it at that, Nothing more!

[BettingWizard]

So nothing has happened, but you'd like for that to change....

You do know about statutory rape laws, right?

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

[nobs]

no there's obviously nothing wrong with it


a pedophile is a man who likes 8 or 9 year old kids. Most 17 year olds nowadays are fully developed anyways and might as well be adults



I would tell you that it's not worth the legal risk to pursue a relationship. Wait till they're 18


oh and also, they're absolutely horrendous material for relationships. But I think you know that anyways

This is exactly how I feel. Too me a sick ass pedophile is someone liking little kids. This girl aint no little kid.

[Br0nxer]

I am asking the question seriously, because I am currently in some trouble at work for liking a 17 year old girl. We are friends, and I bought her a birthday present which my superiors found out about and they think its a huge deal. Yes, I like this girl in that way. Yes, I do work with a 17 year old girl. And yes, matters are made worse because I am her boss.

Be serious please, but can you tell me am I some sicko or are they blowing thus up out of proportion ? Of course, either way they win because they are the owners of the company, but i am just wondering, I am so sick that I, a 31 year old man am attracted to a 17 year old female?

And just to let you know, nothing has happened between us. I just bought her a birthday present and it got back to the owners, and they way they act you would think I boned this girl on company property.

TIA

[brahmabull117]

worse, she is subordinate. I am her boss. But I am her friend too. Just bought her a birthday present, Thats all

nothing wrong with that at all


just make it sound like you bought a gift for your friend



but yes, stay far away from her. You will get fired easily if the company feels that you are acting inappropriately

[brahmabull117]

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

statutory rape is hard to prove, but yes you can go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old if her parents want to press charges

[No coincidences]

you don't go to jail for screwing a 17.5 year old

Depends on the state.

[BGS 9.5]

Have a seat over here.....

[BettingWizard]

16 is legal in like half the states. 17 is legal in almost all states

[Iced]

There is nothing wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl.

Does society in general view it as weird? Yes.
Is a relationship between a 31 year old and 17 year old weird? A little bit.

It's not weird or wrong if you just want to hook-up or are attracted to her. It's a little bit weird if you get in an actual relationship.

I say stay away just because she's a co-worker though. Not worth it to get fired and in all likelihood she doesn't like you.

[nobs]

yes they want me to have a meeting with them thursday. I dont think I am getting fired because even my boss said she understands. Just told me I need to never get her another present. But my meeting will also be with the owners

[beeps220]

Don't shit where you eat

[brahmabull117]

There is nothing wrong for a 31 year old man to want a 17 year old girl.

Does society in general view it as weird? Yes.
Is a relationship between a 31 year old and 17 year old weird? A little bit.

It's not weird or wrong if you just want to hook-up or are attracted to her. It's a little bit weird if you get in an actual relationship.

I say stay away just because she's a co-worker though. Not worth it to get fired and in all likelihood she doesn't like you.

exactly


17 year olds are horrendous for a relationship


I'm 22 and would never date anybody under 21

[MarkDee]

Yes, beacuse if she wanted to you'd fuk her.
17 year old have big mouth's and
jail for a sex crime will mean your fukkked alot.

[gohabsgo]

wait till she's 18 to do anything, don't get in trouble legally.

[nobs]

Thanks everyone

[Dirty Sanchez]

I just want to add.

This girl is 17 1/2 years old. She is mixed. She is so freaking beautiful, and she has probably had sex more times than I have. So this aint some innocent little child, but just the same she is 17.

She probably goes home and calls you fukkin grandpa...wishful thinking Keep buying her stuff sucker

[MarlinsFan2212]

Seen it in pornos a million times. A girl 20 years younger needs a promo, blows the boss, everyones happy.

17 is a little to young realistically though. I would say keep it at 21+ if your 31.

[nobs]

She probably goes home and calls you fukkin grandpa...wishful thinking Keep buying her stuff sucker

yeah you can always count on sanchez for this type of reply

[Dirty Sanchez]

yeah you can always count on sanchez for this type of reply

Yeah it's just another thread different day...you're starting a thread asking serious religious questions one week...and wantiing to play hide the sausage with a 17 year-old the next.....just another SBR Fantasy brought to you by SBRodds.com...that's SBRodds.com

[daneblazer]

Is it wrong? no. But you better worry about the law.

[nobs]

yeah in that religous thread, the serious religous question was about pre marital sex. I never claimed to be perfect, and I admitted in post #1 in that thread that I need to have sex even though I am not married.

You dont have to be perfect to beleive that there is a God. I am far from perfect, and yes I like sex. and I think in Jesus' time as throughout most of human history, it has been traditional for the guy to be quite a bit older than the girl, so i dont think its inherintly wrong to liek a girl younger than you.

[BRAVES1985]

just wait till she hits 18 then plow her

[JohnGalt2341]

Hell, Jerry Seinfeld was 38 when he started dating that 17 year old... I think her name was Shoshanna. Nobody even blinked an eye. I dated an 18 year old still in High School when I was 25. It felt a little weird to be honest with you... When I was 30 I dated a 19 year old in College. It didn't feel nearly as weird for some reason.

[treece]

if there's hair on their pussy then they're ready to fuk