Either you have Alzheimers or you really don't listen when I have talked to you but this is the last time I'll discuss my personal life on here like this: My mat leave ends the week of Oct 24 as that was my son's due date and that's when it officially started. If I go back to work FT, that means I'll have to go back to moving around all of the time, hopping from place to place. I don't think that's the best option for me any more now that I have my son. He needs continuity of medical care and soon he'll be ready for kindergarten and I don't want to bounce him around from country to country.
So my choices are to go back to them FT even though I think it's not the best thing for him or don't and drop to a consultant if they'll still follow through with that offer. My plan is to go to CR in August and it'll give me time to figure out if it'll be ok for my son. From all accounts the place I'm looking to live in will be more than ok. Excellent schools, great health care, etc... If I decide to stay, fine. If it turns out it's not good for him then I can always just leave and go back to my job FT Oct 24 or keep it as a contractor and keep working for SBR.
It's not that complicated. I guess it seems unbelievable because you can't fathom leaving NJ, but some of us have moved before.
After spending too much time on Thursday in a lawyer's office, yes. Considering I have to go back there again on Wednesday, I definitely will be at that point if I'm not already. On a day to day basis though, no, we're doing ok.