Originally posted on 05/22/2016:

Ok, so this is a serious topic and I believe it's quite pertinent for everyone here, and by everyone I mean EVERYONE, you too Shar-bear, so lets let this thread stand.

The goal is talk about your style, what works, what doesn't work etc... Just be real

I know we got some guys here with experience, whether single and dating ie TMS, ttwarrior, RyanLeafodBets or married like myself, Archie, Opie, bigday, KVB and Donker. And then there are the asexuals who really have no place in thsi thread ie Waves, Sweep, Sam Odom, etc.....

Collectively, we can all stand to learn something and if not, then share something. Shari, you will be vital in this thread. It seems personal and intrusive but really it's simple, lets all get better at pleasing ourselves.

I can please myself consistently but that doesn't mean I know everything, doesn't mean I can't learn something new to spice it up or improve something

Its human mature boys