Originally posted on 12/27/2012:
I really hope it works out for you and her. This is a big step, pal. The truth is...as much as you say you'll "be 100% there for your kid, no matter what", that's not really possible if you're only seeing him every other weekend. It's only something you can do by being there for him everyday. Setting the example. Do the right thing. Don't be a fukkin jerkoff. Like it or not, this isn't really about you or her anymore. This is about your kid.
I really hope you give it a real shot for y'all to become a family. You absolutely owe that to this kid.
Best of luck, pal.