[opie1988]

Originally posted on 12/04/2012:

These black girls are chamillions. They are the sweetest girls in the beginning. Soon as they are in they flip on you. I got caught up too. Now I am going thru baby mama drama. Haven't seen or talked to my kid in a month. Not even for thanksgiving. I just went to court to file for joint custody. Had to stop smoking weed for now. I am an angry man.

I hate to hear that, bro. I applaud you for being active trying to be involved in your kids life. Your presence is extremely important to that kid. Do all you can. Best of luck with all of it.

I'm still of the belief that its absolutely best for people to be married before bringing a child into the world. Not only is it best for the kid, but it certainly provides the best opportunity for both parents to positively impact their kids lives day to day. I'm well aware that this way of thinking is outdated, but then again, so am I.