[shari91]

Shari why have you not weighed in on this discussion in a personal capacity?

I said what I felt when Mr Big called me the other night. So this latest thread doesn't really register at this point as the stuff being discussed before was much more serious. To me, of course. I realise others had a good giggle and I can understand why if they just know Bobby casually from the forum or are just that type to be a jackoff. And as often as I just blurt my feelings on here (WHICH I SHOULD NOT DO), I think this time if I have anything I feel is important or might be helpful to say, it's respectful to Bobby that I tell him and/or his family directly. My adding any sort of fuel to this won't in any way assist the person that this thread is about to not make the same mistakes in the future. People without many street smarts don't learn life lessons from being publicly humiliated... they just learn to retreat and are left feeling ashamed. I'm not going to be a part of that.