I've quit gambling, but came across a video that reminded me so much of this place that I just had to come back and post.
http://www.ted.com/talks/laurie_santos.html
The entire video is about 20 minutes, feel free to watch the whole thing if interested.. but the part you really need to watch is 10:45 to 16:45. Pay attention, after this you'll never think the same way about being in the red again.