Now I do like to laugh and mess around and I probably post some of the more ridiculous stuff around here but for once I have a serious matter here that I would like some input on, because I know my opinions on it and they may or may not be necessarily right.
You know the guy. your girlfriend's good friend. Not gay. Not in a relationship. Always seems to be that kind listening ear when you screw up a little bit (and let's face it we all do, at least a little bit). Your girl always says just a friend and never a threat of anything more. Next thing you know they, as in my case, are on the phone for 3 hours until midnight and she is walking in and out of the house, obviously so that you can't be in earshot not that you would spy anyway because you know you're good shit and if she can't dig it she can **** off. Then upon further conversation you find out much of the conversation is about you but wait he's that friend who is always there and supposedly like an older brother so nothing would ever happen between them.
Also you are somewhat established and you view this guy as....someone whose life ambitions are not conducive to long term success (Ok, a fokking loser).
Now in my perspective, from having been on both sides of the coin is that pretty much anyone of the opposite gender who is talking to your girl that much and who is not fully and I mean fully as in never coming back gay is looking for something. My real issue is that the second he takes the time to listen to her vent about you he has crossed the guy code line and he is 100% a piece of crap. The girls, I get it. I'm not perfect and I certainly can be an asshole sometimes so I want her to have people to vent to, but not some dirt bag who is trying to get in her pants. Then same dirt bag tells her to tell you what's up when you two have never met or spoken. Feels like a cocky move to me from a poor fokking loser.
Boys my prediction is that this weekend when partying commences I blow up and say some possibly regrettable things about and possibly to this moron.
Wanted to bounce it off some people before I do.