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  • RageWizard
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    • 09-01-06
    • 3008

    #211
    Originally posted by swede96
    Please, my girls would give any one of these guys the time of day. We can smell dickheads a mile away. You can say what you want. They are good girls...they just picked the wrong boys. We've all smartened up by now.
    You may want to edit this particular post so that it actually says what you intended. The way it read is this: Your girlfriends will give any loser the time of day and they go down alot. If this is what you really mean then you are a mean person to your friends.
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    • BadNina
      SBR Posting Legend
      • 11-27-07
      • 10491

      #212
      Originally posted by swede96
      Funny how all the men in here don't seem to be judging a boy for possibly catching something, but if that boy were to pass it on to his nice girl, she'd be damaged goods forever.

      *cheapassdontwanttowearacondomwhileImscr ewingaroundonmygirlfriend*
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      • pico
        BARRELED IN @ SBR!
        • 04-05-07
        • 27321

        #213
        Originally posted by swede96
        Please, my girls would give any one of these guys the time of day. We can smell dickheads a mile away. You can say what you want. They are good girls...they just picked the wrong boys. We've all smartened up by now.
        by your logic, why can't the boys on this forum smarten up and marry nice girls. all i am saying is that your smartened up gfs will probably end up smartened up dickheads.
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        • Lucas
          SBR MVP
          • 12-20-05
          • 1062

          #214
          Originally posted by picoman
          you'd be nuts to do this. hard to tell which one are poison just by looking at it. you're very lucky indeed
          pico i am from witch-country where every small kid knows hundreds of mushrooms just by looking at it, i know no american citizen will ever believe me, but it is simply true
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          • swede96
            SBR MVP
            • 12-05-07
            • 3875

            #215
            Dearest Lucas,
            I happen to work for a company that requires an absurdly secure firewall and blocks many sites, youtube included.

            Again, look up oxymoron. You have much to learn about our language. My statement may not have made much sense, but it is not an oxymoron.

            An honest girl that sleeps with multiple men would be promiscuous, not a slut. The word "slut" has a more negative connotation. Sluts are not honest. Ever bring a girl home from the bar that says "I've never done this before. I'm a good girl!" She's lying. She a slut. She's not being honest with you and she's certainly never honest with herself.

            I AM wiser and I AM happy. That's why I'm trying to give advice...since I've been through it. That same man has recently grown up and seen the error in the way he's treated women in the past. Since this is such a small town, it's kind of too late. His reputation is known. Hopefully, Baus and the other guys that have no problem with what he did can avoid that. There will come a day when they will want to setttle down with a nice girl.

            Hearts and nnlnn,
            Swede
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            • swede96
              SBR MVP
              • 12-05-07
              • 3875

              #216
              Originally posted by RageWizard
              You may want to edit this particular post so that it actually says what you intended. The way it read is this: Your girlfriends will give any loser the time of day and they go down alot. If this is what you really mean then you are a mean person to your friends.
              Yes, I just noticed that. You'll have to excuse my typos. Allergy meds make my brain all mushy.
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              • swede96
                SBR MVP
                • 12-05-07
                • 3875

                #217
                Originally posted by picoman
                by your logic, why can't the boys on this forum smarten up and marry nice girls. all i am saying is that your smartened up gfs will probably end up smartened up dickheads.
                I didn't say they couldn't, but as I addressed in my next post to Lucas...it may be too late. Of course, that goes both ways. If anyone, male or female, runs arund having unprotected sex for years and catch something they can't get rid of, it's that much harder to find a nice person that will look past that. I consider myself a pretty open minded person, but I don't think I'd take the risk of dating a guy with herpes no matter how infrequent his outbreaks. It may be shallow, but that's a tought thing to get past.
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                • Lucas
                  SBR MVP
                  • 12-20-05
                  • 1062

                  #218
                  ok thanks for english lesson, seriously i like them always
                  so can i bang with honest whore without risk that i bang with oxymoron creature?

                  maybe you ex banged only whores... have you talked to them to know if they are honest?! i doubt... you just hate them because they have stolen your love /which did not exist/ or hurt your ego; like you hate my stupid video, because there is a nice whore

                  your ex boy was maybe extra idiot, but that does not mean, that one has no responsibility for his/her own health; your love hormons do not excuse your naivity, if you are scared of veneral disease, just **** with boys that do not have condominial problem like your ex, me, Baus; i for example do not like skinny girls, i am scared their bone will perforate my stomach, so i would never make love with them

                  btw. as you can read here, i wrote baus to not being idiot and behave selfdestructive to his own mind and maleness and my advice of course was to inform his girl/whore or who the hell she is, that baus likes to abuse also other women than her... this is the only way to happy relationship! to be honest... like a right whore!
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                  • The HG
                    SBR MVP
                    • 11-01-06
                    • 3566

                    #219
                    Lucas you are my favorite poster now, I think.

                    Are you coming to the Vegas bash? If so we will look together for honest whores and/or oxymoron creatures to bang with, it will be great, we will be successful I have a feeling.

                    Don't worry about whatever extra idiot or naive girl/whores we meet, regardless of their hormons, we will not get venereal diseases, it will be fine.

                    I also much prefer non-skinny girls, although I will bang with skinny ones happily if they have the right personality.
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                    • swede96
                      SBR MVP
                      • 12-05-07
                      • 3875

                      #220
                      Originally posted by Lucas
                      maybe you ex banged only whores... have you talked to them to know if they are honest?! i doubt... you just hate them because they have stolen your love /which did not exist/ or hurt your ego; like you hate my stupid video, because there is a nice whore
                      You seriously make my head hurt, dude. I;m sure it's a lost in traslation thing. No offense intended, but my cold meds are wearing off and I have no idea what you're talking about.

                      But I did understand part of it...I do know what girls my ex was banging and yes, they are sluts. I knew they were slut long before they spread their legs for my ex.

                      I'm pretty sure being in love with a guy that could talk a starving dog off a meat wagon and the fact that this all happened between the ages of 17 and 20 excuses my naivety a bit.
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                      • swede96
                        SBR MVP
                        • 12-05-07
                        • 3875

                        #221
                        Originally posted by The HG
                        Lucas you are my favorite poster now, I think.

                        Are you coming to the Vegas bash? If so we will look together for honest whores and/or oxymoron creatures to bang with, it will be great, we will be successful I have a feeling.

                        Don't worry about whatever extra idiot or naive girl/whores we meet, regardless of their hormons, we will not get venereal diseases, it will be fine.

                        I also much prefer non-skinny girls, although I will bang with skinny ones happily if they have the right personality.
                        HG, you know you want a piece of this, baby.
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                        • Lucas
                          SBR MVP
                          • 12-20-05
                          • 1062

                          #222
                          oh wow,
                          now i like you too as you finally changed the avatar;
                          believe me or not, i know your preferences! i heard from friend who is friend of yours, that you love "fat girls", but now i finally met true american, last stand soldier who is not afraid of some overrated AIDS or what

                          yes i have to travel to brasil, maybe yukon and then LV /so far i never was further than was range of my bicycle/, i hope you will pick and eat some dessert mushrooms with me
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                          • jjgold
                            SBR Aristocracy
                            • 07-20-05
                            • 388189

                            #223
                            baus did you do anal with her?

                            If you did how did you get it in there? Was it hard?

                            Thanks
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                            • pico
                              BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                              • 04-05-07
                              • 27321

                              #224
                              Originally posted by jjgold
                              baus did you do anal with her?

                              If you did how did you get it in there? Was it hard?

                              Thanks
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                              • The Seer
                                SBR Posting Legend
                                • 10-29-07
                                • 10641

                                #225
                                Originally posted by jjgold
                                baus did you do anal with her?

                                If you did how did you get it in there? Was it hard?

                                Thanks
                                Well, if it wasn't hard to get in then I'd be a little concerned.
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                                • TexansFan
                                  SBR MVP
                                  • 09-06-06
                                  • 3365

                                  #226
                                  Tell your girlfriend that yes "you ****ed that girl" in Vegas, but that you "make love to her."
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                                  • The HG
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 11-01-06
                                    • 3566

                                    #227
                                    Originally posted by TexansFan
                                    Tell your girlfriend that yes "you ****ed that girl" in Vegas, but that you "make love to her."
                                    good advice. also consider saying "baby, it's just a dick thing baby, that's all that is. that's just a dick thing".

                                    or, what you could also do is not tell her for now, and wait to see if you did in fact get herpes or not. if it turns out you did, then don't tell her, but bareback her once, and then when it's done, go "there, now you have herpes too!" and videotape her reaction and post it here.
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                                    • The Seer
                                      SBR Posting Legend
                                      • 10-29-07
                                      • 10641

                                      #228
                                      Originally posted by The HG
                                      good advice. also consider saying "baby, it's just a dick thing baby, that's all that is. that's just a dick thing".

                                      or, what you could also do is not tell her for now, and wait to see if you did in fact get herpes or not. if it turns out you did, then don't tell her, but bareback her once, and then when it's done, go "there, now you have herpes too!" and videotape her reaction and post it here.
                                      Her reaction might be similar to your avatar.
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                                      • The HG
                                        SBR MVP
                                        • 11-01-06
                                        • 3566

                                        #229
                                        further thoughts on my suggested video project:

                                        you MUST, though have medical proof that you have herpes, and you must have it readily available after the initial intimation is made. otherwise, she won't believe you, she'll think you're just making some sick joke. i mean you would be making a sick joke, of course, but i mean she'd just think you were making a different, far less sick joke than the one you would actually be making. remember, this is a woman who loves you and trusts you. she takes you within her, bareback. she ensheaths your slab. there is no way she would believe that you willingly and knowingly gave her herpes, even if you insisted for a long time. the only thing that will make her start to believe it is if you can produce medical evidence.

                                        and of course, set up as many cameras around the room as you can. you can edge her towards facing the camera as much as you can if you only have one, but it will be much better to just let her move freely about the room in any direction, and allow her natural emotions to develop with as little external influence as possible. even 2 or 3 $20 webcams would be better than one high-grade cam. and of course make sure the lighting is ok. doesn't have to be perfect by any means, but make sure you don't wind up with just a black video and shreiking, otherwise it will just be an audio project, which of course would still be pretty good.
                                        Last edited by The HG; 01-17-08, 02:21 PM.
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                                        • ronald
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 10-31-05
                                          • 4918

                                          #230
                                          [QUOTE=swede96;490889]Yeah, I'm in awe of some of these guys. I've been getting way too pissed in here. I keep having to sit back and remind myself that my boyfriend is a good man and would never EVER say or do these things. He's made some mistakes, but he's always been honest and earned my trust back slowly. That's why I love him. QUOTE]

                                          I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant. One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.
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                                          • ShamsWoof10
                                            SBR MVP
                                            • 11-15-06
                                            • 4827

                                            #231
                                            Originally posted by ronald
                                            I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant. One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.
                                            That's changing but in any case you should not have access to wepons or political power because you just kicked off WWIII...

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                                            • The HG
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 11-01-06
                                              • 3566

                                              #232
                                              ok listen, to put all this "do all men cheat" and "are all women stupid" stuff to rest. no, of course all men don't cheat. two of my best male friends are married, and they definitely don't cheat. one of them, in fact, is married to someone where they are each the other's only sexual partner they have had in their whole lives, and they are fine with that. I've known this guy since we were kids.

                                              but as far as women and being cheated on is concerned, you live and die by your ability to tell who's who. if you can do it, then you don't get cheated on. if you can't then you do. the same goes for guys too of course. and that's all there is to it. if you can tell who's who and what's what, then great, you can choose to be with the kind of person you want. if you can't then you are at the mercy of chance, which usually (but not always) winds up being unkind. very similar to sports gambling in fact. if you can tell what's going on with a game, you can pick over 50%. if not, you're a coin flip.
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                                              • swede96
                                                SBR MVP
                                                • 12-05-07
                                                • 3875

                                                #233
                                                Originally posted by ronald
                                                I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant.
                                                Listen, I know nothing is garunteed. What I meant by that it is he would never go to Vegas and band a girl without a condom....and even if he did...there would be no question in his head as to whether or not he should tell me or risk exposing me to an STD. I'm not stupid. I've dealt with my share of scumbags. My boyfriend is a good man. Good men make mistakes, but they fess up to them and try to right the wrong.

                                                One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.
                                                Cheaters say this to try to justify their actions. Most guys don't cheat, at least not when they're in love.
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                                                • ronald
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                                                  • 10-31-05
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                                                  #234
                                                  I'm not saying anything to "justify my actions," since I have personally never cheated.
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                                                  • BAUS
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                                                    • 08-10-05
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                                                    #235
                                                    For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.

                                                    BAUS
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                                                    • ShamsWoof10
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                                                      • 11-15-06
                                                      • 4827

                                                      #236
                                                      "NO NUKES ALLOWED!" Shams El-Baradei IAEA

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                                                      • swede96
                                                        SBR MVP
                                                        • 12-05-07
                                                        • 3875

                                                        #237
                                                        Originally posted by ShamsWoof10
                                                        That's changing but in any case you should not have access to wepons or political power because you just kicked off WWIII...


                                                        No, he has a point. We listen to our hearts more than men do. I don't see that as a bad thing. I'm grown. I know the difference between blindly following my heart and listening when my heart tells me that a man is worth the benefit of the doubt.
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                                                        • BAUS
                                                          SBR MVP
                                                          • 08-10-05
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                                                          #238
                                                          Originally posted by jjgold
                                                          baus did you do anal with her?

                                                          If you did how did you get it in there? Was it hard?

                                                          Thanks
                                                          No anal coach. Maybe next time.

                                                          BAUS
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                                                          • swede96
                                                            SBR MVP
                                                            • 12-05-07
                                                            • 3875

                                                            #239
                                                            Originally posted by ronald
                                                            I'm not saying anything to "justify my actions," since I have personally never cheated.
                                                            See? You've never cheated. If you have a girlfriend (or wife), I'm sure her womanly 6th sense told her from the start that you were a stand up guy. I've been with cheaters. I'm not stupid or ignorant, so please don't pretend to know me.
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                                                            • swede96
                                                              SBR MVP
                                                              • 12-05-07
                                                              • 3875

                                                              #240
                                                              Originally posted by BAUS
                                                              For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.

                                                              BAUS

                                                              Soo....when are you going to see her again? Are you going to spill?
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                                                              • The Seer
                                                                SBR Posting Legend
                                                                • 10-29-07
                                                                • 10641

                                                                #241
                                                                Originally posted by BAUS
                                                                For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.

                                                                BAUS
                                                                Next time, shit your pants. I doubt she would want to bang then unless she's one of those chicks that likes "Dirty Sanchezs" and "glass bottom boats" and stuff..
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                                                                • pico
                                                                  BARRELED IN @ SBR!
                                                                  • 04-05-07
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                                                                  #242
                                                                  Originally posted by swede96
                                                                  Listen, I know nothing is garunteed. What I meant by that it is he would never go to Vegas and band a girl without a condom....and even if he did...there would be no question in his head as to whether or not he should tell me or risk exposing me to an STD. I'm not stupid. I've dealt with my share of scumbags. My boyfriend is a good man. Good men make mistakes, but they fess up to them and try to right the wrong.



                                                                  Cheaters say this to try to justify their actions. Most guys don't cheat, at least not when they're in love.
                                                                  i admire your conviction. sometimes i tell meself, there is no way boise st. can lose a bowl game to e carolina. no ****ing way. there is no way michigan can lose to a 1AA team. there is no way USC can lose to stanford with 31 pts spread. when you have a championship team that is going for the championship, how can you lose to the worst team in the PAC 10?
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                                                                  • swede96
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                                                                    • 12-05-07
                                                                    • 3875

                                                                    #243
                                                                    Make fun all you want boys. I have me a good one and I'm keeping him. He respects me enough to be faithful...and if he ever did slip up (which I highly doubt), I know he would be honest with me.
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                                                                    • BAUS
                                                                      SBR MVP
                                                                      • 08-10-05
                                                                      • 2191

                                                                      #244
                                                                      Originally posted by swede96
                                                                      Soo....when are you going to see her again? Are you going to spill?
                                                                      Probably tonight. I'm thinking the best approach is to just dump her and tell her nothing about the Vegas slut. I don't feel that into her anymore anyway.

                                                                      BAUS
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                                                                      • swede96
                                                                        SBR MVP
                                                                        • 12-05-07
                                                                        • 3875

                                                                        #245
                                                                        That's fine, but if you care about her, you should tell her and let her be pissed off and think you're an asshole. That benefits you too....you won't have to worry about her coming crawling back. But do your thing....and I would get checked just for your own piece of mind anyway.
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