Need your help boys: Do I tell her I cheated?
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RageWizardSBR MVP
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#211Comment -
BadNinaSBR Posting Legend
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picoBARRELED IN @ SBR!
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#213by your logic, why can't the boys on this forum smarten up and marry nice girls. all i am saying is that your smartened up gfs will probably end up smartened up dickheads.Comment -
LucasSBR MVP
- 12-20-05
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#214pico i am from witch-country where every small kid knows hundreds of mushrooms just by looking at it, i know no american citizen will ever believe me, but it is simply trueComment -
swede96SBR MVP
- 12-05-07
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#215Dearest Lucas,
I happen to work for a company that requires an absurdly secure firewall and blocks many sites, youtube included.
Again, look up oxymoron. You have much to learn about our language. My statement may not have made much sense, but it is not an oxymoron.
An honest girl that sleeps with multiple men would be promiscuous, not a slut. The word "slut" has a more negative connotation. Sluts are not honest. Ever bring a girl home from the bar that says "I've never done this before. I'm a good girl!" She's lying. She a slut. She's not being honest with you and she's certainly never honest with herself.
I AM wiser and I AM happy. That's why I'm trying to give advice...since I've been through it. That same man has recently grown up and seen the error in the way he's treated women in the past. Since this is such a small town, it's kind of too late. His reputation is known. Hopefully, Baus and the other guys that have no problem with what he did can avoid that. There will come a day when they will want to setttle down with a nice girl.
Hearts and nnlnn,
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swede96SBR MVP
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#216Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
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#217I didn't say they couldn't, but as I addressed in my next post to Lucas...it may be too late. Of course, that goes both ways. If anyone, male or female, runs arund having unprotected sex for years and catch something they can't get rid of, it's that much harder to find a nice person that will look past that. I consider myself a pretty open minded person, but I don't think I'd take the risk of dating a guy with herpes no matter how infrequent his outbreaks. It may be shallow, but that's a tought thing to get past.Comment -
LucasSBR MVP
- 12-20-05
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#218ok thanks for english lesson, seriously i like them always
so can i bang with honest whore without risk that i bang with oxymoron creature?
maybe you ex banged only whores... have you talked to them to know if they are honest?! i doubt... you just hate them because they have stolen your love /which did not exist/ or hurt your ego; like you hate my stupid video, because there is a nice whore
your ex boy was maybe extra idiot, but that does not mean, that one has no responsibility for his/her own health; your love hormons do not excuse your naivity, if you are scared of veneral disease, just **** with boys that do not have condominial problem like your ex, me, Baus; i for example do not like skinny girls, i am scared their bone will perforate my stomach, so i would never make love with them
btw. as you can read here, i wrote baus to not being idiot and behave selfdestructive to his own mind and maleness and my advice of course was to inform his girl/whore or who the hell she is, that baus likes to abuse also other women than her... this is the only way to happy relationship! to be honest... like a right whore!Comment -
The HGSBR MVP
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#219Lucas you are my favorite poster now, I think.
Are you coming to the Vegas bash? If so we will look together for honest whores and/or oxymoron creatures to bang with, it will be great, we will be successful I have a feeling.
Don't worry about whatever extra idiot or naive girl/whores we meet, regardless of their hormons, we will not get venereal diseases, it will be fine.
I also much prefer non-skinny girls, although I will bang with skinny ones happily if they have the right personality.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
- 12-05-07
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#220
But I did understand part of it...I do know what girls my ex was banging and yes, they are sluts. I knew they were slut long before they spread their legs for my ex.
I'm pretty sure being in love with a guy that could talk a starving dog off a meat wagon and the fact that this all happened between the ages of 17 and 20 excuses my naivety a bit.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
- 12-05-07
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#221Lucas you are my favorite poster now, I think.
Are you coming to the Vegas bash? If so we will look together for honest whores and/or oxymoron creatures to bang with, it will be great, we will be successful I have a feeling.
Don't worry about whatever extra idiot or naive girl/whores we meet, regardless of their hormons, we will not get venereal diseases, it will be fine.
I also much prefer non-skinny girls, although I will bang with skinny ones happily if they have the right personality.Comment -
LucasSBR MVP
- 12-20-05
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#222oh wow,
now i like you too as you finally changed the avatar;
believe me or not, i know your preferences! i heard from friend who is friend of yours, that you love "fat girls", but now i finally met true american, last stand soldier who is not afraid of some overrated AIDS or what
yes i have to travel to brasil, maybe yukon and then LV /so far i never was further than was range of my bicycle/, i hope you will pick and eat some dessert mushrooms with meComment -
jjgoldSBR Aristocracy
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#223baus did you do anal with her?
If you did how did you get it in there? Was it hard?
ThanksComment -
TexansFanSBR MVP
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#226Tell your girlfriend that yes "you ****ed that girl" in Vegas, but that you "make love to her."Comment -
The HGSBR MVP
- 11-01-06
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#227
or, what you could also do is not tell her for now, and wait to see if you did in fact get herpes or not. if it turns out you did, then don't tell her, but bareback her once, and then when it's done, go "there, now you have herpes too!" and videotape her reaction and post it here.Comment -
The SeerSBR Posting Legend
- 10-29-07
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#228good advice. also consider saying "baby, it's just a dick thing baby, that's all that is. that's just a dick thing".
or, what you could also do is not tell her for now, and wait to see if you did in fact get herpes or not. if it turns out you did, then don't tell her, but bareback her once, and then when it's done, go "there, now you have herpes too!" and videotape her reaction and post it here.Her reaction might be similar to your avatar.
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The HGSBR MVP
- 11-01-06
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#229further thoughts on my suggested video project:
you MUST, though have medical proof that you have herpes, and you must have it readily available after the initial intimation is made. otherwise, she won't believe you, she'll think you're just making some sick joke. i mean you would be making a sick joke, of course, but i mean she'd just think you were making a different, far less sick joke than the one you would actually be making. remember, this is a woman who loves you and trusts you. she takes you within her, bareback. she ensheaths your slab. there is no way she would believe that you willingly and knowingly gave her herpes, even if you insisted for a long time. the only thing that will make her start to believe it is if you can produce medical evidence.
and of course, set up as many cameras around the room as you can. you can edge her towards facing the camera as much as you can if you only have one, but it will be much better to just let her move freely about the room in any direction, and allow her natural emotions to develop with as little external influence as possible. even 2 or 3 $20 webcams would be better than one high-grade cam. and of course make sure the lighting is ok. doesn't have to be perfect by any means, but make sure you don't wind up with just a black video and shreiking, otherwise it will just be an audio project, which of course would still be pretty good.Last edited by The HG; 01-17-08, 02:21 PM.Comment -
ronaldSBR MVP
- 10-31-05
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#230[QUOTE=swede96;490889]Yeah, I'm in awe of some of these guys. I've been getting way too pissed in here. I keep having to sit back and remind myself that my boyfriend is a good man and would never EVER say or do these things. He's made some mistakes, but he's always been honest and earned my trust back slowly. That's why I love him. QUOTE]
I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant. One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.Comment -
ShamsWoof10SBR MVP
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#231I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant. One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.
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The HGSBR MVP
- 11-01-06
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#232ok listen, to put all this "do all men cheat" and "are all women stupid" stuff to rest. no, of course all men don't cheat. two of my best male friends are married, and they definitely don't cheat. one of them, in fact, is married to someone where they are each the other's only sexual partner they have had in their whole lives, and they are fine with that. I've known this guy since we were kids.
but as far as women and being cheated on is concerned, you live and die by your ability to tell who's who. if you can do it, then you don't get cheated on. if you can't then you do. the same goes for guys too of course. and that's all there is to it. if you can tell who's who and what's what, then great, you can choose to be with the kind of person you want. if you can't then you are at the mercy of chance, which usually (but not always) winds up being unkind. very similar to sports gambling in fact. if you can tell what's going on with a game, you can pick over 50%. if not, you're a coin flip.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
- 12-05-07
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#233I hear this from women all too often. I had a buddy who was dating the same girl for four years. She said to me: "I know most guys are pigs and most guys cheat, but I'm lucky that I found one who's a really great, loyal guy." Well, the thing is, her boyfriend was one of my best friends. And he cheated on her with over 30 different girls. She just never found out. To say that your boyfriend would "never EVER" cheat is naive and ignorant.
One cannot guarantee the actions of another, so you simply can't say "never EVER." I think there's a good chance he's cheating, since most guys do. And the best cheaters also happen to be the best cons. I shake my head when women make such firm comments regarding their boyfriend, as if you can read their mind. Oh well. Men think with their dick, and women think with their hearts.Comment -
ronaldSBR MVP
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#234I'm not saying anything to "justify my actions," since I have personally never cheated.Comment -
BAUSSBR MVP
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#235For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.
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ShamsWoof10SBR MVP
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#236"NO NUKES ALLOWED!" Shams El-Baradei IAEA
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swede96SBR MVP
- 12-05-07
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#237
No, he has a point. We listen to our hearts more than men do. I don't see that as a bad thing. I'm grown. I know the difference between blindly following my heart and listening when my heart tells me that a man is worth the benefit of the doubt.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
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#239See? You've never cheated. If you have a girlfriend (or wife), I'm sure her womanly 6th sense told her from the start that you were a stand up guy. I've been with cheaters. I'm not stupid or ignorant, so please don't pretend to know me.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
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#240For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.
BAUS
Soo....when are you going to see her again? Are you going to spill?Comment -
The SeerSBR Posting Legend
- 10-29-07
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#241For the record, this is how it went down last night. We went out for a meal, where I eat far too much greasy food. Then we laid around watching a little TV and I was farting quite a bit. When it came time for the bedroom, I said I really feel bloated and fat right now, not really in the mood. No sexual touching took place.
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picoBARRELED IN @ SBR!
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#242Listen, I know nothing is garunteed. What I meant by that it is he would never go to Vegas and band a girl without a condom....and even if he did...there would be no question in his head as to whether or not he should tell me or risk exposing me to an STD. I'm not stupid. I've dealt with my share of scumbags. My boyfriend is a good man. Good men make mistakes, but they fess up to them and try to right the wrong.
Cheaters say this to try to justify their actions. Most guys don't cheat, at least not when they're in love.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
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#243Make fun all you want boys. I have me a good one and I'm keeping him. He respects me enough to be faithful...and if he ever did slip up (which I highly doubt), I know he would be honest with me.Comment -
swede96SBR MVP
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#245That's fine, but if you care about her, you should tell her and let her be pissed off and think you're an asshole. That benefits you too....you won't have to worry about her coming crawling back. But do your thing....and I would get checked just for your own piece of mind anyway.Comment
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