I'll try to put into words how I use to deploy this strategy. First, you never use this strategy at a bar/club, because it's not going to work in that scene. Works great if you are a college student, personal trainer, or hold another occupation that affords opportunities to interact with women on a more personal level. This strategy is also proven to work with women in the Pacific Northwest...not sure if it'd be as effective with east coast women...maybe you can report back with your findings. I consistently used this strategy from my freshmen year in college all the way into my mid-twenties...though I was able to pull women in their late 20s and early 30s, who I consider to be the most vulnerable and susceptible to this strategy. It's important to recognize that women in their late 20s and early 30s are conscious of the fact that they're at the ages where their friends are starting to settle down...some can be outright desperate...so if you set the table for good things to happen, you need to devise a strong exit strategy, which plays to this strategy. Several times the women turned into real leaches...leaving notes on the windshield while I'm at work, dropping into my work, wanting to meet the fam...that sort of thing. Once had a leach use sticky notes with arrows pointing down towards the letter that stuck under my wiper blade because I told her that I hadn't seen the note she had left just the day prior.
Essentially, I would initiate small talk, transition into more meaningful conversation...drop in some deep convo...like ask about their family or talk about yours...trust me...this leads to a connection (feel like a douche for sharing this). Not sure how personable some of the SBR posters are, but I'm a people person, communicator, etc. When they expect you to make moves on them and you're hesitant to...like maybe you put her arm around her or some other small sign of interest, but don't try to move past that, they start to wonder what's up. Some have even asked if everythings cool and I'd tell them in a round about way that I have a tendency to jump into relationships fast, and that I just want to get to know them better. FYI...if you can get to the point where you are qualifying them, without being too obvious...you're golden. This move alone sparks the tiger in quite a bit of women. Again, they're so use to guys like Bet chasing them down aggressively, it's refreshing for them to not have to feel like they're constantly putting the brakes on every move you make.
Not every guy can pull this strategy and again, it's only going to work in certain situations. It requires sophistication, people skills, and manipulation. If you're Neanderthal, you got no chance using this. I might look like a Neanderthal, which creates a level of expectation that I will behave a certain way, and when I don't, it perplexes women. I also gotta to say that I have felt downright bad using this..but Christ, it's so effective. BOL Zeta...report with your findings.
Essentially, I would initiate small talk, transition into more meaningful conversation...drop in some deep convo...like ask about their family or talk about yours...trust me...this leads to a connection (feel like a douche for sharing this). Not sure how personable some of the SBR posters are, but I'm a people person, communicator, etc. When they expect you to make moves on them and you're hesitant to...like maybe you put her arm around her or some other small sign of interest, but don't try to move past that, they start to wonder what's up. Some have even asked if everythings cool and I'd tell them in a round about way that I have a tendency to jump into relationships fast, and that I just want to get to know them better. FYI...if you can get to the point where you are qualifying them, without being too obvious...you're golden. This move alone sparks the tiger in quite a bit of women. Again, they're so use to guys like Bet chasing them down aggressively, it's refreshing for them to not have to feel like they're constantly putting the brakes on every move you make.
Not every guy can pull this strategy and again, it's only going to work in certain situations. It requires sophistication, people skills, and manipulation. If you're Neanderthal, you got no chance using this. I might look like a Neanderthal, which creates a level of expectation that I will behave a certain way, and when I don't, it perplexes women. I also gotta to say that I have felt downright bad using this..but Christ, it's so effective. BOL Zeta...report with your findings.
