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  • shaggy3000
    Restricted User
    • 12-29-09
    • 5801

    #1
    need advice
    so there is this chick that use to have a huge crush on me back at the old job. well we havent talked in forever. except one day after i got drunk and texted her. ( short talk after she found out i was trying to hit on her and she had a serious bf )

    well now she is single out of the blue on fb. this has happened before and they got back together fast.

    how should i go about hitting on her here?

    plus she has a SUPER HOT friend in her profile pick that i would love for her to introduce me too. should i just ask her to introduce me to her and figure the original girl will be locked up soon? if so how should i go about asking her to do that?


    only ask you guys cause ive been ******* up a lot lately with the ladies and im trying to turn the around as soon as possible!!!
  • horja1
    SBR Hall of Famer
    • 01-13-11
    • 5646

    #2
    just ask her to introduce you to her friend
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    • onetrickpony
      SBR Hall of Famer
      • 08-23-10
      • 9434

      #3
      no good way to ask if she liked u at some point
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      • Flyers21
        SBR Sharp
        • 07-05-10
        • 498

        #4
        Go ahead and ask about her friend. That way you get to talk to her and maybe you can see if she gets jealous.
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        • stikymess
          SBR MVP
          • 05-19-10
          • 3288

          #5
          Originally posted by shaggy3000
          so there is this chick that use to have a huge crush on me back at the old job. well we havent talked in forever. except one day after i got drunk and texted her. ( short talk after she found out i was trying to hit on her and she had a serious bf ) well now she is single out of the blue on fb. this has happened before and they got back together fast. how should i go about hitting on her here? plus she has a SUPER HOT friend in her profile pick that i would love for her to introduce me too. should i just ask her to introduce me to her and figure the original girl will be locked up soon? if so how should i go about asking her to do that? only ask you guys cause ive been ******* up a lot lately with the ladies and im trying to turn the around as soon as possible!!!
          The pretending like you are a doctor didn't work out?
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          • downsouth
            SBR Posting Legend
            • 01-13-11
            • 11580

            #6
            Asking to meet her friend probably fails. If she had a.crush ever than no way she is letting one of her friends have a shot (girls are bitchy like that) now if she is single she may bang and that could be worth your trouble.
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            • oiler
              SBR Hall of Famer
              • 06-06-09
              • 6585

              #7
              well u need to decide what will happen in the worse case scenario but gl with it
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              • DblDeuce
                Restricted User
                • 09-10-10
                • 368

                #8
                Just tell her how you feel as life is too short! Don't worry about being embarassed, worst case is that she will just be flattered.
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                • rggolds8
                  Restricted User
                  • 04-18-11
                  • 134

                  #9
                  find a new one
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                  • hhsilver
                    SBR Hall of Famer
                    • 06-07-07
                    • 7375

                    #10
                    when she had a "huge crush on you" how did you react?
                    forget her hot friend for now, she is probably attached or too hot for you. Just try talking to your original friend again and judge whether that old crush returns.
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                    • shaggy3000
                      Restricted User
                      • 12-29-09
                      • 5801

                      #11
                      Originally posted by onetrickpony
                      no good way to ask if she liked u at some point
                      no man she was def crushing on me back in the day. she already told me when i randomly texted her last year. plus i could tell. and then something happened with work or something. not really sure. i had absolutely no game back then. purely got by on looks alone.
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                      • shaggy3000
                        Restricted User
                        • 12-29-09
                        • 5801

                        #12
                        Originally posted by stikymess

                        The pretending like you are a doctor didn't work out?
                        havent bought the car yet. waiting on the uncle to get another car so he can sell me his. hell hopefully be getting a car this week.
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                        • tomcast
                          SBR Wise Guy
                          • 06-19-06
                          • 754

                          #13
                          Say what is on your mind in as direct and straight forward a way as possible.
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                          • BIGDAY
                            SBR Aristocracy
                            • 02-17-10
                            • 48245

                            #14
                            GL bro. I'll have to put more thought into this one. Pros and Cons.
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                            • shaggy3000
                              Restricted User
                              • 12-29-09
                              • 5801

                              #15
                              Originally posted by BIGDAY
                              GL bro. I'll have to put more thought into this one. Pros and Cons.
                              yeah thats what i was thinking. not worried about looking like a fool. just dont want to kill a shot at it in the future. ill be moving up in the area she lives.
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                              • Marv001
                                SBR MVP
                                • 02-27-10
                                • 1147

                                #16
                                Just stay friends, sounds like a whole lotta drama.
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                                • shaggy3000
                                  Restricted User
                                  • 12-29-09
                                  • 5801

                                  #17
                                  Originally posted by Marv001
                                  Just stay friends, sounds like a whole lotta drama.
                                  not really friends. havent talked to her in forever
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                                  • JerseyLove
                                    SBR MVP
                                    • 02-15-10
                                    • 2183

                                    #18
                                    Plenty of fish in the sea don't focus just on one.
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                                    • bostonbruins
                                      SBR MVP
                                      • 04-02-08
                                      • 3272

                                      #19
                                      easy , fuk her friend, if she's into you it will make her jealous and you'll bang her too

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                                      • shaggy3000
                                        Restricted User
                                        • 12-29-09
                                        • 5801

                                        #20
                                        Originally posted by bostonbruins
                                        easy , fuk her friend, if she's into you it will make her jealous and you'll bang her too

                                        thats what im trying to do. but im looking for advice on what i should email her. or post on her wall. whats the go to move on this? dont think an email saying hey now that youre single we should get together and get naked is going to work. ( could be wrong tho )
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                                        • Lazy-Man
                                          SBR MVP
                                          • 12-20-10
                                          • 1430

                                          #21
                                          Are you stupid ask her out you puss
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                                          • swiss88
                                            SBR Wise Guy
                                            • 02-07-10
                                            • 906

                                            #22
                                            Originally posted by shaggy3000

                                            thats what im trying to do. but im looking for advice on what i should email her. or post on her wall. whats the go to move on this? dont think an email saying hey now that youre single we should get together and get naked is going to work. ( could be wrong tho )
                                            I think it all depends on her level of hotness, we need pics to give good advice
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                                            • The Madcap
                                              SBR MVP
                                              • 07-03-10
                                              • 2808

                                              #23
                                              Originally posted by shaggy3000
                                              thats what im trying to do. but im looking for advice on what i should email her. or post on her wall. whats the go to move on this? dont think an email saying hey now that youre single we should get together and get naked is going to work. ( could be wrong tho )
                                              Don't email her. That's lame.

                                              Do some research, find out where she hangs out, and then randomly show up there with some of your boys. Hopefully she's already had a few drinks and is in the mood to make some bad decisions.
                                              No more of that talk, or I'll put the leeches on you.
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                                              • Palcsi
                                                Restricted User
                                                • 07-16-10
                                                • 228

                                                #24
                                                Bang everyone who you can Hahahaha
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                                                • shaggy3000
                                                  Restricted User
                                                  • 12-29-09
                                                  • 5801

                                                  #25
                                                  Originally posted by The Madcap

                                                  Don't email her. That's lame.

                                                  Do some research, find out where she hangs out, and then randomly show up there with some of your boys. Hopefully she's already had a few drinks and is in the mood to make some bad decisions.
                                                  yeah thats by far the best idea. im going to have to take this stalking to a whole different level
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                                                  • shaggy3000
                                                    Restricted User
                                                    • 12-29-09
                                                    • 5801

                                                    #26
                                                    was going to post a picture but reconsidered
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                                                    • HartlMP19
                                                      SBR Rookie
                                                      • 01-24-11
                                                      • 28

                                                      #27
                                                      Just ask her out and see what happens.
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                                                      • UZI Suicide
                                                        SBR Hall of Famer
                                                        • 02-15-11
                                                        • 8426

                                                        #28
                                                        Get drunk and text her again. Send her a pic of your c0ck.

                                                        After you're done banging her brains out, roll over and ask her about her hot friend.
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                                                        • kd2133
                                                          SBR Rookie
                                                          • 03-11-11
                                                          • 47

                                                          #29
                                                          ask about her friend then find out about what happened to her and the bf. Then make a well informed decision bro.
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                                                          • dabomguy11
                                                            SBR Wise Guy
                                                            • 01-28-11
                                                            • 558

                                                            #30
                                                            Originally posted by downsouth
                                                            Asking to meet her friend probably fails. If she had a.crush ever than no way she is letting one of her friends have a shot (girls are bitchy like that) now if she is single she may bang and that could be worth your trouble.
                                                            Definitely agree with this one. If she's hot, go for it. If not, you're probably shit out of luck with her friend unless your friend brings her friend out with her. If that happens, you'll get introduced and you have a shot.
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                                                            • VegasVixen
                                                              SBR Wise Guy
                                                              • 09-03-10
                                                              • 991

                                                              #31
                                                              You guys are so lame. If you're interested in a chick, let her know. We're not mindreaders, and while you're coming up with your "game plan" a more intelligent guy will let her know how he feels and you'll be posting us next week asking what to do next. Man up.
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                                                              • shaggy3000
                                                                Restricted User
                                                                • 12-29-09
                                                                • 5801

                                                                #32
                                                                guys i might not be doing my best right now but i seriously doubt randomly hitting her up within days of splitting with her long-time bf ( if its real ) is the go to move here. like i said im rusty as of late i think i still remember what not to do. ( i just dont stop myself from doing it. )

                                                                im thinking the best play is to "randomly" run into her at a bar or hit her up saying im about to move to her side of town and it'd be nice to see a familiar face while im trying to meet new people
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                                                                • mighty maron
                                                                  SBR MVP
                                                                  • 04-20-09
                                                                  • 4215

                                                                  #33
                                                                  walk away and never look back
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                                                                  • shaggy3000
                                                                    Restricted User
                                                                    • 12-29-09
                                                                    • 5801

                                                                    #34
                                                                    Originally posted by VegasVixen
                                                                    You guys are so lame. If you're interested in a chick, let her know. We're not mindreaders, and while you're coming up with your "game plan" a more intelligent guy will let her know how he feels and you'll be posting us next week asking what to do next. Man up.
                                                                    interested??? wo wo wo man. im not interested in anything more than someone to flirt with and get a nice friends with benefits for a while.

                                                                    and that hasnt ever worked for me. i might be saying it in the wrong way but thats never worked
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