Having Problems With The Girlfriend: Advice Needed

[ChuckyTheGoat]

Situation like this...if you're thinking about it, it's already over. Tell her, sorry, you gotta go. You'll feel like $1 Mill bucks.

[BGS 9.5]

$200/month? Time to take the milk weeds to her ass....

[ttrace35]

Situation like this...if you're thinking about it, it's already over. Tell her, sorry, you gotta go. You'll feel like $1 Mill bucks.

Your prolly right chucky. She's too much of a little girl and has mommys beautiful townhouse waiting for her. I never once had my own place(not counting a cell). I always been shacked up with some chick.

[ttrace35]

$200/month? Time to take the milk weeds to her ass....

Yea. She needs her ass kicked. She's a kid and hasn't stepped into the real world yet. Its my fault. I let this happen.

[chilidog]

Make her walk out back and pick out a good switch ...

[rfr3sh]

tracer just fuckin lay the rules down

pay more of gtfo!

[ttrace35]

tracer just fuckin lay the rules down

pay more of gtfo!

This this best move. But I know she will choose to move back to jersey. She doesn't like city life and complains daily about traffic.I think I will lose her. I would love for her to move back to mommys but for us to stay together. This way I can bang chicks on the side. I haven't had side ass since I moved in with this girl 2 years ago. This would boost my ego.

[RealSlimShady]

Trace, it sounds like you are definitely getting tired of her. For 6 years, the few hundred a month did not bother you, but now it does all of a sudden. Not good.

[ttrace35]

Trace, it sounds like you are definitely getting tired of her. For 6 years, the few hundred a month did not bother you, but now it does all of a sudden. Not good.

No. I only been living with her for 2 years. I was with her but still living with my kids mom for the first 4 yrs. Things were great then.

[chilidog]

I think that SlimShady nailed it. You're suddenly tired of her. Now you're just looking for excuses to justify your feelings. Look, life is fukking short. It's tough enough as-is. You always have to look out for yourself first (except for any kids - they always come first). To me, it sounds more like you would prefer if you could just wake up tomorrow morning, and she just wasn't part of your life anymore.

[Thor4140]

u blew it when she bitched about the gas. You should have said "fuk u pay 200 a month and u are worried about me using up ur gas?"

[iceminers26]

If you're confident in your game and looks, show her the door and don't think twice about. Heck even if you're not confident in those things, show her the door; can always order pros.

[underthe total]

you need to stfu and find someone 1 who is fine 2 who produces something to the relationship 3 has good sex

and stop posting this shit in the forum

WE are degens

[ttrace35]

you need to stfu and find someone 1 who is fine 2 who produces something to the relationship 3 has good sex

and stop posting this shit in the forum

WE are degens

I know. But its gay to go crying to the homies with this shit. Guys are guys. Degens or not

[ttrace35]

u blew it when she bitched about the gas. You should have said "fuk u pay 200 a month and u are worried about me using up ur gas?"

I did get at her about that cheap shit. That started a big beef.

[Muggy]

Talk to her and tell her how you feel. If she's not down with that, it might be time to cut the cord and have her move out because a relationship is at its best when everyone is communicating clearly and being respected.

[BIGDAY]

Tough spot Tracer.
Ask yourself where you see yourselves in 5+ years.

GL

[donkdown]

She doesn't work with any young dude. She's locked in a office with an old chinese dude. Anything is possible I'm no fool. But, I been with this chick since 19. The novelty of a hot young broad wore off. I might need a more mature chick.

So Slim Shady is her boss?? Small world. It's Obv she is a gold digging freak and likes China Men!!

[ttrace35]

Tough spot Tracer.
Ask yourself where you see yourselves in 5+ years.

GL

Thanx big day. I know what I need to do.

[ttrace35]

So Slim Shady is her boss?? Small world. It's Obv she is a gold digging freak and likes China Men!!

Yea. She's dying to get in WTF's pants

[dom75]

I feel your pain, but as a previous poster mentioned, ask yourself where do you see your relationship whit her in 5 years. Be honest about it. If you are having problems now, they only get worse, and you are not even married to her yet. If you feel the need to let her go, then let her go now ! Do it before you get her knocked up or investing too much more into her. Everyones situation is different, and no one person has the best damn advice for you. But you have invested the last 6 years of your life with her and gradually things have gone on a downward spiral, the opposite of what a true good loving should be doing. Letting her go might just be the best thing, and you know she will be going back to mamma. Atleast you know she will be safe so to speak. Best of luck in whatever you decide. Just keep in mind that there is no right or worng answer. Dammned if ya do, dammned if ya don't.

[ttrace35]

I feel your pain, but as a previous poster mentioned, ask yourself where do you see your relationship whit her in 5 years. Be honest about it. If you are having problems now, they only get worse, and you are not even married to her yet. If you feel the need to let her go, then let her go now ! Do it before you get her knocked up or investing too much more into her. Everyones situation is different, and no one person has the best damn advice for you. But you have invested the last 6 years of your life with her and gradually things have gone on a downward spiral, the opposite of what a true good loving should be doing. Letting her go might just be the best thing, and you know she will be going back to mamma. Atleast you know she will be safe so to speak. Best of luck in whatever you decide. Just keep in mind that there is no right or worng answer. Dammned if ya do, dammned if ya don't.

Thanks for your time Dom. Yea I want to let her go but I want to keep her too. But your right. I should make this move now. Maybe she will give up more money and stay. Its not like we hate each other. She is just cheap by nature.

[sweethook]

lay her in a bed of roses pour whiskey over her body and lick it all off. that will work shel go to payin off then young buck.

[compaqDikk]

i personally would take her drivers license and open up a creditwagering account. well abouut 45 posters have done this here just look at their stiff site. most women are 2.5s on there. purposely lose and take +450s and let Creditwagering's collection dept. deal with her accordingly. anyone see when they kidnapped uncle richie in his trailer? you don't wanna fukk w/ these guys. she will go crying back to mommy by the end of the month. case closed

[jjgold]

i personally would take her drivers license and open up a creditwagering account. well abouut 45 posters have done this here just look at their stiff site. most women are 2.5s on there. purposely lose and take +450s and let Creditwagering's collection dept. deal with her accordingly. anyone see when they kidnapped uncle richie in his trailer? you don't wanna fukk w/ these guys. she will go crying back to mommy by the end of the month. case closed

[robmpink]

Guy, I would talk to her and she if she is down to contribute some more $$$$ to things you share. If so, I say she is committed. if not, I don't think she is.

[allabout the $$$]

go out with your boys and get some tail will make u feel much better thats part of the problem u havent had any ass besides hers in 2 years go down to the l.e.s get you a spanish or black girl then come back and tell everyone what a good time u had

[jjgold]

go out with your boys and get some tail will make u feel much better thats part of the problem u havent had any ass besides hers in 2 years go down to the l.e.s get you a spanish or black girl then come back and tell everyone what a good time u had

Tracer is a fukkin mess

[flyingillini]

I was with someone for 5 years and little by little I was getting fed up with anything and everything she did. She didn't live with me but I paid for most things and expenses...That was not an issue because I chose to pay but one day I just couldn't deal with her anymore... Plus she wanted to get married and that doesn't interest me... It took me about 2-3 weeks to get back in the swing of things... I have never been happier and it was the best decision I have made in a long time... I couldn't be happier being single at the moment.

[will2survive]

this is a prejudice thread against the Jews..."Her Jewish Ways" what's that supposed to mean. Grow up and get an education

[Snowball]

i guess you don't want her to be your wife ?
if she was your wife, then ALL her money would be YOURS too.

maybe she doesn't want to blow all her money on a guy who won't marry her.
ever think of that ?

she's Jewish, so is likely Traditional, in the head.
i don't think it's her being cheap, it's her wondering about your intentions.

[raydog]

gawd i love hearing the responses that gambling degenerates have on relationship topics...

[ByeShea]

Stop! Do not do a thing.

You have a good thing going here.

Pound her in the brown. Sounds like she'll give that up before paying half your rent you cheap bastard.

Realize some value for once in your life.

[ttrace35]

this is a prejudice thread against the Jews..."Her Jewish Ways" what's that supposed to mean. Grow up and get an education

I didn't mean to be racist. Let's just say that she fits the stereotype.

[freeVICK]

Fukk cheap fukks. Had a potluck style party at my place and a friend brought a platter of chicken that went untouched. Had so much leftovers I took that chicken and other stuff to eat dinner at my parents place. 3 days after the party asked what happened to the chicken. Told him I ate it, then he has the nerve to ask for $40... Paid that cheap fukk and I never talked to him again