Originally posted on 11/09/2012:

If you think you will hook up with some chick on the side then you should not get married. I don't cheat because I care about my wife and our marriage enough not to ruin it by chasing tail like a 19 year old. Everybody says you don't have sex after getting married and the woman runs your life. After 6 years together and 2 kids we still get busy all the time. The key for a man is to actually plan it out and start romancing her long before you want sex. Remember, a man's sex drive is like a microwave, 2-5 minutes on high power and done. Women usually are more like a slow cooker, for best results it takes many hours of work and patience. As for the woman running your life that only happens if you let it happen. If you feel like you are losing your say in the relationship you should express your feelings in a mature manner. Pouting will never help your cause, it just makes you look like a whiny punk.