Originally posted on 01/10/2012:

Other posters here don't have a clue.

Your wife is being a huge oyster and this has been going on for so long that you've come to posting about it on a sports fukking gambling forum. Think about that.

Invite the girls over. Are you crazy?? If you don't get caught you can smirk and be in a good mood when your wife comes back. If you do get caught then so what? Your marriage looks done unless something big changes.

Although one other poster was right, you cannot get out of this by trying to please her more by 'transforming'. In this regard she is walking all over you. The best way to fight back is to show her, or pretend to, that you don't need her and can be happy without her. This is the classic reverse psychology shit that works on women because they're wired backwards. If you chase them they aren't interested, but if you seem aloof they want you. The first step to being independent and not needing her is by ******* other women.

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