Originally Posted by
DublinMeUp
I don't have your way with words unfortunately but I'll try,
Nash based his theorem on zero sum games, ie solved games. In it he says that in such a game where each party makes the correct play/action in each given situation it is -EV to deviate from the correct play yourself. However if you or any other participant does deviate, the game is no longer in equilibrium and therefore it is -EV for you and/or others to continue to play as you had. Nash is not about optimal vs sub optimal at all as it only holds true in one situation.
Therefore, you are using nash incorrectly to rationalise your big bettor / small bettor scenario, Since there is never a point where a market is solved it cannot be proven one way or the other that it is in the best interest of either party to take a certain action.
"The best town is the one in which no one is a thief" true and this is nash
"The best place to be a thief is a town without one" also true in literal terms but in equilibrium terms its a contradiction onto itself in that the town stops becoming the best town as soon as you become a thief ie it is no longer in equilibrium.