Wow, that is a giant clusterf*ck. Really sorry about that--we've been growing like crazy and have some pretty green guys on the phones.
The LAST thing we want to do is delay paying players. We have had some processors screw us and hold payments unnecessarily (or were they doing another book a "favor" and making us look bad--a paranoid possibility); and we do occasionally botch it ourselves as in your case.
But we do literally thousands of withdrawals everyday, and the vast majority go through pretty painlessly. Our person to person payments are are as fast as anyone else, as we've jst massively improved our payout options for this season.
It has been an achilles heel for us--a big part of it (good payment processors) are sorted now and in the next week or two the payout request automation will be in place and hopefully these kind of human intervention errors will be greatly reduced. Frankly, we can't afford the time on them either!