[Big Bear]

Okay fellas I was married and I’m now divorced so I’m back on the dating scene.

In fact I have been for about a year.


But I have a question for you guys. Now I consider myself a good dude, pretty straight forward honest guy...


So my friend recently advised me not to tell women that I have 2 kids. But he said if they ask, don’t lie.

Now I like this advice but I want to get another opinion

I know it’s hard enough to get a date in the first place and it’s not the lightest thing to talk about. I like to keep the mood light and make women laugh etc

I don’t want to have serious conversations or talk about the past on dates

However let me ask the saloon

At what point do you tell a woman you have kids?

A.) before the 1st date

B.) on the 1st date

C.) after you have been on a few dates or after you had sex with them or when they ask whichever comes first


I am not trying to lie to women but I don’t know how soon to bring it up

Appreciate the feedback

[Baraldsson]

Definitely option B. Just casually drop it into the conversation during the first date as part of an anecdote about something else. The very worst thing you could do is try to hide it or worse still lie about it.

You'll know from her reaction whether it's gonna be a dealbreaker for her or not.

Good luck, brother.

[Big Bear]

Definitely option B. Just casually drop it into the conversation during the first date as part of an anecdote about something else. The very worst thing you could do is try to hide it or worse still lie about it.

You'll know from her reaction whether it's gonna be a dealbreaker for her or not.

Good luck, brother.

I like this b/c If I bring it up prior chances are I won’t get the date.

[Djbigboss]

A
but find you a lady with daddy issues lmao

[Ratpack]

well if they have kids its easier to bring it up and that's something you both have in common if its someone you just wanna bang don't worry about it but if you, see something in this chick you got to tell them right away

[Auto Donk]

jeeze....

at this point just learn how to deepthroat kahk and lube up your ass.....

you obviously weren't meant to date women....

[thechaoz]

Are you trying to bang (recommend for a while) or are you trying to find a gf (didn't learn our lesson the first time?).

It really doesn't matter if you're trying to smash. If she asks, say ya split part time whatever it is.

[MinnesotaFats]

Don't tell them anything

Rent a super nice apt w 2 other buddies, split costs, it's your fukk pad only. Dont let them know anything about you...not even your last name.

[thechaoz]

Don't tell them anything

Rent a super nice apt w 2 other buddies, split costs, it's your fukk pad only. Dont let them know anything about you...not even your last name.

This is pro level

[pimike]

Just tell her you bet 17,000 on the game tonight.

Women like to hear your financially secure justvlike biggie.

[captrobey]

Tell her before the first date that way you will not waste your time meeting them . Or on the first date bring both with you and have them sit on her lap . Have them draw pictures ahead of time they can give her preferably nothing but elves with large penises .