Girl I used to be into years ago is now into me. I’m not into her anymore. She’s given strong advice in past relationships I’ve had and has been a good friend. I just am not attracted to her; very different interests and very immature (one example is she wears multiple bras to make it look like she has big when she’s an A cup...), we’re both 24...
She keeps asking me to go out to bars with her. Obviously I could be an ass, go and find another girl there but I value this friendship.
Sure, could penetrate her but 1) she catches feels easily and 2) I’m not interested in her. Rather the friendship remain intact. I do not want fwb with her either. The bra thought is a huge turnoff on its own.
Thoughts on how to put her down gently? Told her I just want to be friends but she mistakes us talking for a chance I guess. I suggested sure let’s go to the bar with a group...