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    Need some dating advice

    Alright so I’m getting divorced.

    I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

    Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

    I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

    but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

    i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

    luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission

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    Only an arsehole would stigmatise you for being separated and you shouldn't want to date them anyway. Just explain the situation as you have here, emphasise how there's no hope of getting back with your ex as that's really what a woman would worry about, let her know that there'll be no drama (hopefully) and that should be enough.

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    LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

    So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.

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    if you have money and anything but jj golds micropenis you have a chance

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    Quote Originally Posted by eaglesfan371 View Post
    LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

    So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.
    Players play. He dangled his dong with a sympathy story and reeled in Shari - only took 21 minutes. #timestamped
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    Quote Originally Posted by eaglesfan371 View Post
    LOL didn’t you post asking about dating advice 2-3 months ago, some girl who was playing hard to get?

    So I’m guessing you’ve been attempting to have several affairs or you’ve been separated for awhile.
    It’s not an affair if I’m separated is it?

    makes no sense why it would be. My ex moved out last April.

    just a waiting game at this point. Once divorced I expect to do quite well with the ladies. I’ve been dating since August and been telling all of them the whole story.. it’s like boxing with an arm tied behind your back

    my game is strong. I been getting dates with chicks 10 years younger while saying I’m separated, unemployed and have kids with me half the time. Once I get stabilized it’s going to be on this summer. Especially if I make enough to buy a boat. Bitches will flake like crazy but I’m thinking if I invite them on a boat I can get them and their hottest friends to commit a week in advance

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    Act like a god by sticking it out on your own for a while. Don’t look for another organism, find out about yourself (not saying don’t get laid)... don’t jump to another relationship because a,b, and c...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Especially if I make enough to buy a boat. Bitches will flake like crazy but I’m thinking if I invite them on a boat I can get them and their hottest friends to commit a week in advance
    Got to like the implications of a boat:

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    Dating websites and Church are easy ways to meet nice chicks..

    Bars and clubs if you are younger can work also.

    Dress nice, have a job, and act as if.. Be confident and strike up silly conversations with chicks.. Some will shut you down and blow you off and don't take it personally.. It's a numbers game. The more you try and speak the better you get at it.

    I'll be dating like crazy this summer myself. Winter is tough..

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    i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by TheMetsSuck View Post
    i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....
    Yup chicks don't like unemployed bums with no income... Keep that on down low for sure.. Hard to date if you are broke also. Going out costs money..

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    Quote Originally Posted by shari91 View Post
    Only an arsehole would stigmatise you for being separated and you shouldn't want to date them anyway. Just explain the situation as you have here, emphasise how there's no hope of getting back with your ex as that's really what a woman would worry about, let her know that there'll be no drama (hopefully) and that should be enough.
    This.

    If you consider yourself a 8/10 or above, then the chicks won't care about your story because they only looking for a fling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Alright so I’m getting divorced.

    I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

    Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

    I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

    but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

    i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

    luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission

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    need dating advice too

    she is 24, 1/2 my age

    I can still eat that, right?

    going to no matter what you fukkers say, thanks in advance for your approval

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittsburghPlayer View Post
    need dating advice too

    she is 24, 1/2 my age

    I can still eat that, right?

    going to no matter what you fukkers say, thanks in advance for your approval
    Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eaglesfan371 View Post
    Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.
    That would be Stevek if she was 20 years younger
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bostongambler View Post
    That would be Stevek if she was 20 years younger


    Reported.

    Though Steve should be reported to the local PD for being off his meds. No joke to the families with children.

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    Quote Originally Posted by eaglesfan371 View Post
    Choke her, tie her down, make her your wh0re and have her call you daddy. Younger women enjoy that.
    prefer to tease their clits with my tongue while searching for a g spot

    more a soft, feel my way around with my face and dick than a tie `em down man

    fukk, no man wants to be tied, why would I?
    just came home an hour ago after going out which I NEVER do at night
    fukk
    getting laid is about to get easy again

    oh, and I had only 3 beers/no pot in 4 hours

    you fukkers will never catch me fukking with any of your families by driving drunk
    or any other manner


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    Quote Originally Posted by TheMetsSuck View Post
    i'd maybe keep the whole unemployed part to yourself on the first few dates. Most girls are desperate for a guy whose in the middle of a divorce with kids who sits on his arse at home all day on a gambling forum unemployed. Fake it until you make it.....
    LMAO

    This one chick wanted me bad until she found out I didn’t have a job. It was my buddys idea for me to tell her that I lied about having a job

    I actually do have a job now. Now I just need to do well at it.

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    Have a talk with any regular partner about their kinks. No matter what they say do not laugh, say that’s weird or comment negative. When a girl opens up her kinky side is when you’ll have the most fun.

    Many girls do enjoy being tied down or restrained. Women are on guard 24/7, often always stressed and sex for them is a way to relax. Not be in a control. Thus, many enjoy being dominated by their partner.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PittsburghPlayer View Post
    prefer to tease their clits with my tongue while searching for a g spot

    more a soft, feel my way around with my face and dick than a tie `em down man

    fukk, no man wants to be tied, why would I?
    just came home an hour ago after going out which I NEVER do at night
    fukk
    getting laid is about to get easy again

    oh, and I had only 3 beers/no pot in 4 hours

    you fukkers will never catch me fukking with any of your families by driving drunk
    or any other manner

    JFC you are such an idiot, for real

    This was bad even for you

    Reported

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Alright so I’m getting divorced.

    I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

    Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

    I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

    but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

    i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

    luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
    I'm normally one for 100% honesty but I think in this case yes you should tell them the divorce is final, sorry to hear you're going through that

    Congratulations on the new job!

    What do you sell?
    Last edited by stevek173; 04-05-19 at 08:50 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by stevek173 View Post
    JFC you are such an idiot, for real
    This was bad even for you
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    Psycho666, it was 4:30am
    bad for even me is more and less than is expected from me around here

    when are you going to start a thread concerning Shari`s wedding gift? I am a non pro, powerless, but you Psych, with your "recruiting" experience - you could have a positive impact

    You do that, punk, and I will donate to a wedding gift, as well as a pro membership for someone that uses points and shit, in the spirit of BigDay, big J`s and brotherhood
    but not with you

    deal?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Alright so I’m getting divorced.

    I can file at the end of the month. After that it’s only a matter of getting my ex served with the papers

    Question is since it’s coming up in like 3 weeks should I just say I’m already divorced to women I meet?

    I am a fan of honesty and would answer honestly if asked (I think)

    but I feel stigmatized saying I’m separated and many times it makes it hard for me to come across as a high value male when I am separated.

    i was unemployed too.. some chicks seemed turned off when I told them that

    luckily I found a new sales job and I am supposed to start today. Best part about it I get to work from home. It’s a 1099 position though but uncapped commission
    Never, ever, ever, ever

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    If you agree to these terms I will really spill the know how to get you going big time.

    If you refuse I am unwilling to help you because you will divert from the essential tactics to accomplish the previously mentioned banned activities.

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