Originally Posted by
Mac4Lyfe
On top...
Most men are insecure so on top is most popular. By being a little insecure, you need reassurance by seeing her response. I got this, I'm in charge, Let me do the driving. if I move the right way I can make you *** on cue. But some guys don't care if she cums in this position. I'm going to pump and dump when I'm ready to get mine.This position also suggest that you don't have a lot of moves in your aresenal. It's not very adventurous.
on bottom...
Means you are concerned with pleasing your partner. It shows that you are confident in being submissive. You get off helping her get off. You don't mind mixing up and you can bark out orders as well. Sometimes it could mean that you're out of shape and don't want to do much work too. Or you can't hold off ejaculating on top so you mix it up to interrupt the feeling.
Both
Liking both positions tells says that you can't hold your come enough to pump away but you want to please her, so your trying different stuff, hoping she'll come first.
Liking to be on top but with the lights on means you have very good control and able to hold it until you're ready. You like to see her face and the expressions she make while you go to work. You most likely talk dirty as you let her know "who's your daddy".