[ThaWoj]

i turn 31 next month, ive always gone out with younger girls, some even 7 years younger than me. theres this 46 yr old chick that is not even really my type but her personality is very intriguing/attractive. i worked with her for about a year and i always thought she was pretty cool, kind of outgoing and nice, but for a while for some reason we didnt get along and even didnt speak for like a month. now she thinks im some kind of prick probably and i dont even know why i want to try. theres just something about her. we were at a mutual friends party last week and we were fine just chilling talking whatever and during a game of truth or dare i got my friend to dare her to kiss me for like 10 seconds lol.

she currently has a young child and no man except she penetrates some guy occasionally i guess. im not good with females as it is so i have no idea how to approach this woman without coming off as a creep or her thinking that because we kissed that now i want to go on a date with her. also she values privacy bc we have a lot of the same friends so it would be important for her i think if she said yes for no one else to know.

i really just want this to be a "lets see what happens" on this one date and go from there and i think she would want that too. please help guys what do i say, how do i go about asking her on a date?

[itchypickle]

If she's 46 and single she's either
A- crazy or desperate....or both

B- divorced and busy with life, work, kids

So the answer is simple...don't ask her out just tell her when and where to meet. Problem solved....good luck

[ThaWoj]

its def more 'B'. but i dont think its so simple because we know each other and we had that brief falling out. she prbly thinks im some immature young punk and i wanna take her out and show her that i can be a gentleman and whatever. bc most women in their 40s i would think would prefer the gentleman type compared to the 'bad boy' type.

i guess the best way to do it is just be straight up and ask. i think problbly just ask her if she wants to get somethin to eat or get a drink. if she asks why, then i guess i tell her that i would simply like to take her out or go on a date and/or that i was always kind of attracted to her?

[ParlayininHTown]

Is it possible that you like the challenge of somehow attracting this woman more than the actual woman?

[Kermit]

You don't, you run the other direction.

[Ghenghis Kahn]

ask her to lunch or dinner. preferably dinner so you guys can also have couple drinks.

complement her and tell her she looks young for her age.

chicks over 30 love it when people say they look young.

but mostly, just give her some attention.

i doubt 46yo single moms get that much attention from dudes.

don't over think it, just do it. she'll probably be easier to deal with than younger chicks.

also, if you just want to get laid, let her know before hand.

she probably does not want a long term relationship with someone almost two decades younger.

[BennyBigNuts]

She's 46 and single bro.
Her legs will be open before you walk up to her door to pick her up.

[Ralphie Halves]

She already sees you as kind of a prick, use that. Just say "hey, I'm going to take you out this weekend", then do it. Women that age don't have time for passive wussies anyway.

Whether or not she's right for you is irrelevant. You already said you wanted to ask her out, so that's how you do it.

[Doug]

she currently has a young child and no man except she penetrates some guy occasionally

how does a woman penetrate a man ?

If she is available at all she very well might be open to a 30 year old gut at 46 for some sex with no strings attached. I'm almost 50 and would certainly do a much younger woman if available and not some insane head case, ugly, obese, etc.

depends what she is seeking....

if she wants a younger penetrate buddy you are golden,,,if something like a sugar daddy you ain't it or ifv she just wants a guy about her age you don't fit well. most likely it would be a short term relationship.

[Big Bear]

Is it possible that you like the challenge of somehow attracting this woman more than the actual woman?

yes that is certainly what it is.

and to answer OP's question... be casual just say hey you want to meet for a coffee?

take it from there

[Big Bear]

She's 46 and single bro.
Her legs will be open before you walk up to her door to pick her up.

this

[peacebyinches]

Two words:
Dick Pic

Its what all the kids are doing these days apparently.

If your not packing, just try being casual about it, don't even make it seem like a 'date-date'. If you go out to lunch, don't be that cliche chivalrous dude and open doors for her or pay for lunch (unless she's super into that crap).

[pulledclear]

If she has more then 1 cat........RUN!

[innovation]

All she wants someone who can last and give her multiple full body orgasms. You are also wrong about her keeping it private.....women love to share sex stories to thier besties when they get it durty.

I don't think you have any idea what your trying to sign up for and if she senses that she won't even give you a go.

[pulledclear]

Bring a TON of lube. She aint 16 anymore.

[peacebyinches]

If she has more then 1 cat........RUN!

agreed, multiple cats = deal breaker

[Smoke]

Finger fukk her in the bathroom then bend her over and pound her

[unusialsusp5]

treat her like a used car whose undercarriage is rotting away, because when you put her up on the lift you will find problems you don't want to fix.

[infamousbacardi]

I was w/ you until you said you were playing "truth or dare" with a grown ass 46 yr old woman. WTF!?

Just ask her to lunch one day, easy as cake.

[PhillyFlyers]

A 46 year old has been around the block more than a few times by now. You need to tread carefully. A woman like that can smell bullshit a mile away.

Here's what you do. Be honest and complimentary at the same time. Bullshit her in an honest way.

Example....

You walk up to her and say.....Hi. Listen, if I told you that you have the greatest smile I've ever seen, you would think I'm trying to pick you up. The thing is....you do have the greatest smile I've ever seen and I am trying to pick you up. How about we go out for dinner?

[PhillyFlyers]

Delete double post.

[innovation]

post pics of beef curtains....so we can verify shes 46

[BennyBigNuts]

post pics of beef curtains....so we can verify shes 46

Beef curtains.
Always loved that one.

[Russian Rocket]

I was w/ you until you said you were playing "truth or dare" with a grown ass 46 yr old woman. WTF!?

Just ask her to lunch one day, easy as cake.

nominated!

[downsouth]

Asks her if she would like to go dinner and fukk or just skip dinner and fukk. Be direct

[Big Bear]

Asks her if she would like to go dinner and fukk or just skip dinner and fukk. Be direct

Let me just say this to everyone...

Even if a chick is easy and wants to fukk all time...

tread lightly with this. Even if she is super easy
take her to dinner every once in awhile and take her out for drinks

sometimes you can piss them off if you are too direct

[reigle9]

It doesn't matter how old she is, have her over for a drink. Getting laid isn't hard or complex in any way.

[ThaWoj]

ty u guys first off. 2nd lol im not necessarily trying to fukk. At least not the first night. I actually like this chick and she def acts and looks younger than 46. I think a fews guys may have nailed it that i may be curious or attracted to the "can i get her" instead of being interested in the actual woman. And the truth or dare game was with like 20 ppl mostly from work or friends of all different ages. Its prbbly stupid anyways and im sure she'll get the wrong idea or think i have alterior motives

[reigle9]

It's 2013 dude, everyone is a whore. She'll think yous a homo if you don't bang her the first night.

[greenhippo]

It's 2013 dude, everyone is a whore. She'll think yous a homo if you don't bang her the first night.

Winner

[SBRMAN23]

Same as you would any age women be honest and blunt they will respect that then you use charm, sense of humor sprinkle in a little sarcasm they like that and your golden. If you lack some of those things being upfront in what you want will be your best tool.

[ThaWoj]

Same as you would any age women be honest and blunt they will respect that then you use charm, sense of humor sprinkle in a little sarcasm they like that and your golden. If you lack some of those things being upfront in what you want will be your best tool.

I think this is good advice to be honest. Its just complicated in the fact that she knows me and has a somewhat negative perception about me. she doesnt know that im actually a good guy. Anyways ill try to keep yall updated, hopefully i can call her tonight and find out what shes down for.

[horja1]

tell her she looks young for her age.

good one

[Big Bear]

It's 2013 dude, everyone is a whore. She'll think yous a homo if you don't bang her the first night.

i know right.

what year did they all transition to being whores?

[zizoudane10]

I was w/ you until you said you were playing "truth or dare" with a grown ass 46 yr old woman. WTF!?

Just ask her to lunch one day, easy as cake.