1. 06-14-12 04:25 PM #1
    nyplayer33
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    question for parents who have kids

    You choose to have your own kids..wife carried them over adoption...do yo feel more connected to having your own kids then adoption. Even if you didnt adopt..please give me your thoughts on this. Im having a discussion with a girl who just had her own and still feels it is no different then adopting...yet she enducred 9 months of pregnacy. I am not saying adopting isnt good..its a great alternative if u cant have your own..I was married to a girl who was adopted. Thoughts?????
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  2. 06-14-12 04:35 PM #2
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    You would have to ask this question to a parent who has done both.
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  3. 06-14-12 08:26 PM #3
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    or would i expect parents who have there own kids to chime in and explain the dna connection and what it has done for them
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  4. 06-14-12 08:29 PM #4
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    I agree with chilli. Tough to answer if u didn't do both.
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  5. 06-14-12 09:12 PM #5
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    It's not the same thing exactly, but my stepdad has been around since before I can remember, I can't imagine being closer to a real dad, even now that my moms been dead for 10 yrs.

    I'd think it'd depend on the parents. Some woud have that utimate bond, some just wouldn't, especially if the kid turns out to be a bad seed.
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  6. 06-14-12 09:30 PM #6
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    interesting..wanna have more feedback
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  7. 06-14-12 10:00 PM #7
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    The only difference is the beginning.........by the end, they're identical.
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  8. 06-14-12 10:00 PM #8
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    thread title is opposed to parents who don't have kids?
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