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    anyway i'm not trying to sound like a little bitch i just wanted all of your opinions on my situation. Basically i've decided not to call her anymore. I'm really fighting that urge though. I feel like even if i called and got her to hang out with me or get back together with me ... she would have total control of the relationship since right now it looks like i need her more than she needs me.

    so hopefully by not calling her she will miss me and come back to me. I think its really the only option i have.

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    If possible get yourself involved with something to keep your mind busy, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house eating rocky road and watching Dawson's Creek reruns. Call some friends up, go out on the town, strip club, sporting event, casino, work on a side project etc....I know the feeling and its painful, god bless.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    anyway i'm not trying to sound like a little bitch i just wanted all of your opinions on my situation. Basically i've decided not to call her anymore. I'm really fighting that urge though. I feel like even if i called and got her to hang out with me or get back together with me ... she would have total control of the relationship since right now it looks like i need her more than she needs me.

    so hopefully by not calling her she will miss me and come back to me. I think its really the only option i have.
    she came over for break-up sex.

    yes, do not call her at all...........there are better out there, just move on. 1 year from now you will wonder why you even sweated this chick.

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    Feel for you. Just give her her space. Hopefully, she comes back. If she doesn't, then you need to move on.

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    the bitch is out doing one of these parties with her girlfriends... dancingbear.com

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Here is a little update. we broke up Tuesday she calls me Thursday comes over spends the night things went well but we didnt talk about anything serious. I woke up went to work before she woke up. I havent heard from her since. we did make plans to hang out today on thursday when i saw her but she didnt call me today...
    She's playing with your emotions now, cut her off full stop.

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    sounds like shes seeing how bad you need her to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    this is a girl i love and want to marry and i was planning on asking her to marry me this fall on a trip we had planned. The reason i havent asked her to marry me yet is until now i havent had been in a good position financially and ofcourse ya know i want to be sure before i pop the question.
    listen you know that saying, "she loves you but she's not in love with you"? it sounds like she still cares for you but she's ready to move on for now. you guys are still young and she probably wants to see what's out there. if things were meant for you to be together, it'll happen eventually. but for now, just forget about her. you'll go through some heartache, depression, self doubt or what not but this will make you grow up and make you into a better person.

    best thing for you to do right now is hang out with your friends and go find a rebound...

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    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?

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    dont. call. her. ever. again.

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    move on

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    I've been there bro, every time they say they want to be along is because they are banging someone. Could be a girl or a guy. She might be willing to try threesomes with her girl/guy friends too, every girl is into that nowdays. Make sure to tell her you are available in that case. Other thing, saying you are 28 years old already like you are old make me think you are a big pussy. Randy Couture is 48 and is still crushing heads. You are never too old to pay child support. And believe me you will or you will be miserable. The first wife is always a failure.

    This one goes with many years of experience: If a girl dump you once, will dump you twice, and the 2nd time goes with the child support included.
    Just go out there and get a new pussie and stop whinning. You are just afraid to go out there. Did u forget how good it feels to bang a new pussie?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
    Call her right away and invite her over. But make sure you are crying when she arrives, also would help if you were wearing only tighty whities and had ice cream spilled all over your face and chest. Mixed with tears it puts off the ultimate sadness phermone and is sure to win you some pathetic points.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
    Are you nuts, you are a ******* pussie, whats wrong with you? love you? She dumped you idiot. No woman love a pussie. A woman in love is like a worm, they will lick your shoes and wipe your ass smiling.

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    Quote Originally Posted by downsouth View Post
    Call her right away and invite her over. But make sure you are crying when she arrives, also would help if you were wearing only tighty whities and had ice cream spilled all over your face and chest. Mixed with tears it puts off the ultimate sadness phermone and is sure to win you some pathetic points.

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    fukkin probettor

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    Love? I'm in love with Scarlett Johanssen, but I have a problem, she doesn't want to fuk with me. And this is the same problem you have with your ex. being in love with Scarlett Johanssen is as stupid as you being in love with your ex. Well I bet scarlett is way hotter than your ex. and scarlett never tried me. So in your case I'd say is way more stupid.
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    Women are like bets, you only bet when you are going to win. And there are thousand of games to choose. You get stuck with one team you are done. Move on and win your bet. You only win if you get laid.
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    The problem is that we see too many romantic movies. I love my wife, great sex, never complains, neved mad, works hard, sexy, beautiful. But if she wants to move on tomorrow and try new things I would be happy for her. Love someone means wishing this person the best, if the best for her is moving on then why would i try to stop her?

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    Can you please give me you ex phone number? better a guy that you kind of know than a complete stranger. It wont bother me if she bang you now and then while I'm doing her, that is a plus.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ra77er View Post
    If possible get yourself involved with something to keep your mind busy, the worst thing you can do is sit around the house eating rocky road and watching Dawson's Creek reruns. Call some friends up, go out on the town, strip club, sporting event, casino, work on a side project etc....I know the feeling and its painful, god bless.
    Sorry, this is all crap. Nice, romantic but crap. You just need a new pussie. You dont trade the queen with a pawn. pussie with pussie.

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    I gonna start a thread that says how do I get rid of mine

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    Quote Originally Posted by clynnm17 View Post
    I gonna start a thread that says how do I get rid of mine

    Post her phone number, we are hungry here. especially if she in the one in your picture.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
    jesus christ pal. get a grip. listen to yourself. you're sounding like a little bitch right now. be a man, not a sobbing teenager. only way to get her back is to say **** it and forget about her. how can she respect you when you don't even respect yourself? stop playing yourself and grow the **** up. if you want respect from her, stop calling her. get that thought out of your head. show some toughness pal, you are not a kid anymore.

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    You guys are right I am being a little bitch. I'm depressed as fukk.

    I am done with thread I'll let y'all know if she ever comes back. For now on I will Only post about sports

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    You putting the oyster on a pedestal mang

    Find a new chick to fuk. They all want time and money

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    **** as many betches as you can she will come back

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    Go out and start hooking up with her friends, or better yet her younger sister. You have to make yourself the fun, desirable guy instead of the pathetic loser that started this thread. Trying to see her here and there is the absolute worst thing to do. If she sees you when you are out with someone else (better) she may come around, but what's more likely is that you start to have a great time without her and move on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    i'm really fighting that urge to call. I would just hate to call and have her not answer my calll and make my self look needy for no reason. On the other hand I feel like if i call maybe she will want to make plans with me.

    Is there any time frame where it would be okay to call?

    I just hope she is not taking the attitude "He will call me if he wants to hangout" or if i wait like 3 weeks and by that time she might already be dating someone else.

    But if i don't call her , eventually she will miss me and call me if she actually loves me right?
    Don't call anytime soon. Seriously, a few months...She isn't coming back soon if you pursue her. For her to make the break after 6 years couldn't have been easy (unless you really suck), so she's clear now to play the field. You can't get her back by chasing, you have to change yourself and hope she notices.

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    Aight guys I get it. You all think I'm a broke dick pussy bitch fukking loser. Let's end this thread.

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    probettor1 fuckin hilarious

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    Probettor has a very strong interest in this case, I wonder if he is secretly banging your girl?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Rich Boy View Post
    Probettor has a very strong interest in this case, I wonder if he is secretly banging your girl?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    Aight guys I get it. You all think I'm a broke dick pussy bitch fukking loser. Let's end this thread.
    Did you try crying yet?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Big Bear View Post
    You guys are right I am being a little bitch. I'm depressed as fukk.

    I am done with thread I'll let y'all know if she ever comes back. For now on I will Only post about sports
    depressed as fukk for a girl? You are hidding something. Were you one of those kids playing football in Penn State University?

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