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    even if she isn't, I don't see the point in being with her anymore

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    I'm not sure but her new job as the spokesperson for Ashley Madison dot com certainly seems a bit suspicious.

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    If it has feathers and quacks... it's probably a duck.

    You need to sit down with an attorney asap. Fork out the cash for a one hour consultation. Even if your plan is to try to work things out with her, you need to know what your options are. Every state has different laws. In some states, having evidence of infidelity goes a long way and in others divorce is a 'no fault' issue where everything is divided 50/50. Some states also have laws or precedents that can work against you if you move out of the house prior to legal separation. It's just best to know where you stand legally.

    Sorry about your situation...

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    just leave man. sent the divorce papers out. she is going down to pound town all the time

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    My wife came home with *** allover her face and a used condom in her pussy...should I be worried she's cheating?

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    Quote Originally Posted by bettilimbroke999 View Post
    My wife came home with *** allover her face and a used condom in her pussy...should I be worried she's cheating?

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    sorry bud...

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    Quote Originally Posted by bettilimbroke999 View Post
    My wife came home with *** allover her face and a used condom in her pussy...should I be worried she's cheating?
    That wasn't ***. She got a little excited with those fresh-baked cinnamon rolls that somebody brought into the nail salon, that's all.

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    8,000 texts!!!! Are you friggin kidding me??

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    8000 texts is probably how many I've sent over the past 15 years. What do people have so much to talk about to people they see all the time?

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    roundcake's rooster is <6"

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    lol @ nothing going on....i text alot but its to one person i'm interested in. the rest of the girls that text me or i text them, it's like 4 max a week bc i dont really give a f about them. dont be a sucker dude, there's def something going on.

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    Your ******...

    you obviously have zero trust in her, so whether she's cheating or not is absolutely irrelevant. Just end it and get it over with you'll never be happy or trust her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ra77er View Post
    I work in p whipped white guy science. This guy needs to get off the forum and go handle his business but he won't because he has no ballsack. No way in hell should she be texting some guy that many times, but I've seen this many times. It's just sad really.


    OP, this is all your fault.. if my wife was on the phone that much, I would snatch it from her and inspect.

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    i would spent the 500$ or whatever it cost to get the records...

    u are at a shitty crossroads... u accuse and are wrong.. and u are fed... u do nothing and have a kid and you are fed


    you need hard proof.. because even if you approach her.. she is going to lie.. she already has.. and has been lying to you already..

    so coming at her won't do shit but start a yelling war... get the "real facts" 500$ is cheap to find out whats really going on with your wife... Once you have proof.. just place it in front of her... Tell her you want a divorce.. and serve her papers..

    if you find out she was being truthful.. you avoided a fight with your wife..

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    whether its your phone or not, get that text log. If its hers tell her to get it or gtfo, but odds are you are not going to like what you see.

    Just me but a married woman/man shouldn't be making "close" friends of the opposite sex after marriage, that is not ok.

    Be one thing if she knew the guy for many many years but she should be talking to you with all those texts.
    Last edited by brooks85; 12-23-11 at 11:03 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bettilimbroke999 View Post
    My wife came home with *** allover her face and a used condom in her pussy...should I be worried she's cheating?
    Nah, just another day at work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gryfyn1 View Post
    Your ******...

    you obviously have zero trust in her, so whether she's cheating or not is absolutely irrelevant. Just end it and get it over with you'll never be happy or trust her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kmarinouofm View Post

    you need hard proof.. because even if you approach her.. she is going to lie.. she already has.. and has been lying to you already..

    Fuk the hard proof. He has hard proof that she text another man 300 times a day. That's enough to put the bitch on the sidewalk.

    Let's say she's not cheating..She's still playing texty wexty with this other dude.

    Huge red flag homie. Even if she's not cheating, she's fuking with your peace of mind. Lifes to short for that bullshit.

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    Make her feel guilty about this whole imbroglio and then press for some backdoor access.

    Tell us what happens next. Really curious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jjgold View Post
    No idea because do not know how you are in bed or how you get along Tell us some sex shit so we can have better opinions
    You are one of a kind JJ.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FuzzyDunlop View Post
    Programs like this violate the TOS agreement you make with your carrier. If caught, you will get F'd in the A with no lube.
    Google "Carrier IQ". I posted about this a month or so ago. TOS right.

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    is safe to assume that with all this texting going on there's was really no time to puck

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    Quote Originally Posted by roundcake View Post
    8000!!! text msg's sent to the same number starting at 7am every hour until 1 in the morning, EVERY SINGLE day...
    Holy crap, isnt that like 1 text every 4 minutes ALL DAY LONG? Holy crap.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bettilimbroke999 View Post
    My wife came home with *** allover her face and a used condom in her pussy...should I be worried she's cheating?
    Depends, is her name Strawberry Cocksmith?

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    It'd be obvious, if we'd talk about 800 sms per month....but 8000?

    I am 99.99% sure that this IS, what it seems

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    If she takes her phone in the bathroom when she takes showers and stuff you know shes ******* around on you.

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    Your wife kind of reminds me of my 14 year old niece who constantly has her nose in front of her phone texting away, all day every day.
    8,000........I cant even comprehend that man!

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    jesus, I hate hearing of these things. You and her are trying o have achild and she is texting some guy thousands of times. I would say she def has a huge interest in him and it looks bad.

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    8000? Is she texting him while he's balls deep?

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    If she works with him, how come she has to text him while they are at work?

    Shouldn't they be fornicating in the janitors closet or something.

    I would bitch about the phone bill being long, not about her swallowing another man.

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    Just take her phone and read the last 20 texts. Should be able to get a picture of what they talk about

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    under no circumstances should you have a child with this woman, unreal

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    I would hold a gun to her head and demand the real answers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madison View Post
    Google "Carrier IQ". I posted about this a month or so ago. TOS right.
    CarrierIQ has contracts with phone manufacturers and carriers and applies to their use only, not between the carrier and their customer. That said, what I've seen about it from super respectable people in digital security, is some scary shit.

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