maybe 500 total... not many visits to one, sure it can be fun and a good visual entertainment to just sit back with some beers and take in the show and music... tip a little... play game of pool or two... talk to the girls... but i only pay for a dance if the girl just catches my eye. only once did a girl get me to stay for a 2nd dance right after... she knew what she was doing
and sometimes id end up paying the cover, a drink or two... and spend like 10 on tips... and no dances a couple times.
its just not a big thing... its fun, but it just only really pops into my head maybe once or twice a year... and i don't care at the moment if i blow 50 to 100 that night. try to get a friend to go... usually its not too hard to convince someone but now that most of my best friends are married or LTR... its a no
the last time i went was over a year ago... then i caught news that it shut down... so i just haven't put any time into going to a different joint.
if you are 22+ and haven't gone even once just to see what its like and all... seems nuts to me