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    BookiesBernanke
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    Dating a girl with a 4 yr old???

    Anyone have any experience or suggestions on "best practices" when it comes to maybe dating a girl with a young kid.

    I dont want to hurt the kid if it doesnt work out.

    I dont know if "she completes me"


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    cant call it
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    The best thing about a chick with a kid is you know for sure they put out.

    If you like kids and you like the girl you should keep her around.

    If you are not a kid person, you should pound and vanish.

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    babyjesus
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    relationships are hard has is. adding a kid into the equation is like going from alg1 to alg3.

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    The kid won't give a fucc, he/she knows your not daddy anyway

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    Forget it unless you are rich.

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    bad move

    huge distraction

    kids are relationship destroyers in todays generation

    Worst thing you can do Son

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    get out now...... bad news

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    Quote Originally Posted by cant call it View Post
    The best thing about a chick with a kid is you know for sure they put out.

    If you like kids and you like the girl you should keep her around.

    If you are not a kid person, you should pound and vanish.


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    Most chics with kids are fukkin worn out

    lousy in bed

    kid your getting trapped

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    you should pound and be gone,that is my advise.

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    opie1988
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    Do you love her? No....no. That's bullshit. She loves you. If you don't love her.....you have got to tell her.

    A real man doesn't shoplift the pootie from a single mother.

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    Stay away-I'm speaking from experience. The kid only get's jealous and there's constant tension and bickering. If this girl is a superstar, possibly take a risk. If she's just an average person or someone with baggage, look for someone else. Once you get involved,it's difficult to get out of. I'm living this day in, day out. Believe it or not, I always wanted a boy but it's worse when you're girlfriend has a son, girls are easier to deal with and more endearing. Proceed with caution

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    Guy use your head

    Its all in this thread

    Do not waste your fukkin time

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tech N9ne View Post
    The kid won't give a fucc, he/she knows your not daddy anyway
    Worst advice ever

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    Quote Originally Posted by InTheDrink View Post
    Worst advice ever

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    If you're asking a bunch of strangers on a gambling message board to validate your own decision, then involving yourself with this woman is only the first of many stupid as fukk decisions you will make in life because clearly you're a fukking retard.

    God bless.

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    ive tried many many many times on the internet to find a woman with a younger child. maybe 8-10 times in the last 10 years. takes a lot of work trying to get close, usually some neighbor or family member can see my true intentions its hard to hide them. at that point have to get out and try again. be very careful of spending time alone be very smart and DONT GET CAUGHT

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    Should not be a problem.


    I thought that M Waters took his sick act to South America.
    The meds and therapy are not working......
    chemical castration and removal of the frontal
    lobes are in order.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MichaelWaters View Post
    ive tried many many many times on the internet to find a woman with a younger child. maybe 8-10 times in the last 10 years. takes a lot of work trying to get close, usually some neighbor or family member can see my true intentions its hard to hide them. at that point have to get out and try again. be very careful of spending time alone be very smart and DONT GET CAUGHT

    Someone needs to bury this fock

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    Quote Originally Posted by opie1988 View Post

    A real man doesn't shoplift the pootie from a single mother.
    Opie there must be exceptions to this rule

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    Does the kid like to eat?

    No: get out of this relationship

    yes: the kid should not be a problem

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    Can call it is 100% correct kids are living proof that that chiks put out
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    will post odds on when the kid says you can't tell me what to do you're not my father..probably set the over/under at 6.5 yrs and then you will feel like you've been had because you have been had...get out..

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    young kids are bad news, the chick has to be a 9 or 10 to even consider it.

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    Not sure how old of chick you are looking to hook up with. However if she is older than 16 yrs old chances are you will be dealing with a kid or kids. If you are looking just to hit it then finding a time when a 4 yr old is sleeping or at grandma's shouldn't be a problem. If you like the chick and plan on staying with her the kid is part of the package. Obviously at 4 yrs old the kid has a lot to learn. If you lead them to believe you are dad then you will be. If that's not what you want set the record straight. Good luck whatever you decide.

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    see if the kid is a trouble maker, likes gambling or has attention deficit disoder. how old are you and she

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    Move on. Or proceed and wish you did. The kid isn't the biggest problem but where he/she came from sure as heck is.

    Remember I said that.

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    if she's a good mom, you won't be around her son that much in the beginning.

    if she's not a good mom, she won't be a good wife.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemicalbrother View Post
    if she's a good mom, you won't be around her son that much in the beginning.

    if she's not a good mom, she won't be a good wife.
    Isn't the fact she's divorced proof something is already wrong with her?

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    Lol jj says use ur head.. Hes missing something from his head too.. Lolol classic jj

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    Thanks for all the advice. Keyboard your right bro, but I hadnt made a decision yet so figured adding SBRforums.com to my trusty advisor list would be a

    I took her and her kid swimming today. She had a nicer ass then I thought so that was some serious bonus points.

    Her son was really well behaved and very friendly so either he was medicated or he is used to meeting new people. Maybe he meets a new dude every week. I will definitely bag it.

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    she is desperate for a man around the house, most likely. you should be able to get away with thing that a solo girl wouldn't allow.

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    Let her (mother) use her discretion. My advice, you're not the kids father, don't act like one...at least for 3-4 years (assuming there is no biological father in her life).

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    post pictures of her without the kid please

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    Quote Originally Posted by cant call it View Post
    The best thing about a chick with a kid is you know for sure they put out.

    If you like kids and you like the girl you should keep her around.

    If you are not a kid person, you should pound and vanish.
    This is the advice I would give.

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