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    shaq diesel 75
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    my girlfriend always cancels

    Don't know if this ever happens to anyone else, my girlfriend will always cancel things she's supposed to do when I have a day off so she can hang out with me all day. Of course it's always under the pretext that she's not feeling well, only problem is I can predict when she's gonna do this. Example is the last 2 weeks I've had Monday off and she has always went to the school to help out her daughter's classroom and I've always worked on those days. Now all of a sudden I've started getting Monday's off and she doesn't feel well and has been cancelling her visits, I think she just doesn't want me sitting home alone, and all I want to do is watch a little Espn and hang out now I've gotta watch desperate housewives and listen to her plans for the necxt month and how shitty their gonna go. It seems like she's not really sick she just can't stand the thoguht of me being home alone when she could be there. I feel like she's just babysitting me and it really pisses me off cause I feel like she's manipulating and lying to me, am I crazy or what?

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    chilidog
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    Man up.

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    Sounds like a possible trust issue. If this continues, you might want to thnk about breaking it off if it bothers you that much. If you are looking for some space, and she will not give it to you, then she's definitely not the right one for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chilidog View Post
    Man up.
    Precisely...do what u want

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    desperate housewives....haha, sounds like she wants to be one

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    hahahh jeez sorry to hear

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    Tell her your feelings man. If she dont like it, tell her to hit the road!

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    Dude... she doesn't trust you and is the dreaded "clingy"... especially when she wants to know your work schedule for the next couple weeks in advance.

    Next time she wants to know what your schedule is don't tell her what it is. See what she does. If she freaks - pass. You'll deal with that shit FOREVER. Only other option is to train her. She can be trained to act the way you want but you'll still deal with "clingy" and if that bothers you it'll drive you crazy.

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    time for a new one

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    tell her how you feel.

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    She doesn't trust you gps her car asap she doing something wrong

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    Grow a set.

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    man i love clingy girls!

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    Quote Originally Posted by chase hardy View Post
    Tell her your feelings man. If she dont like it, tell her to hit the road!
    this

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    I cannot give out advice without seeing pictures.

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    talk with her about your feelings and solve the problem

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    you should speak with your girlfriend about this...it should be clear what is behind of this.

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    Maybe she is really sick and has aids if she's always not feeling well. There's also a possibility you'll catch it from watching Desperate Housewives with her.

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    Watch espn and tell that her to shout her mouth

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    get rid of this broad

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    yeah we really need to see a photo to give out good advice

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    Wow.... I almost thought this was a serious post.

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    I deal with the same shit every single day and trust me its not fun, it fvckin sucks. You better run right now because it is not going to get better, its only going to get worse. If i dont let my gf know when i get off work, she gets angry and will start an argument. I cant do anything without her because she is attached at my hip and doesn't have any friends because she wants to be with me EVERY SECOND of the day. This post is probably going to get an argument because she'll read this

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    sex all day with ur wife. if she dont like it she will leave u alone. if she does, u have sex all day. win win homie

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    I think that you are overthinking this. I wouldn't say a word to your girlfriend she can't continue to take sick days and either she will get fired or she'll go to work.

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    Agreed. Voting with clingage troubles. The less you give it any attention, the more it would fade down. Try not to care too much about it.

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    watch espn and make a rule. she's not allowed to watch with anything more than booty shorts on. be persistent. don't let her hear the end of it until she leaves or does it. she might get pissed, but it'll make her think it would have been better to go to work. that, or she'll be happy to prance around topless for you. and if she does, tell her to make you a sandwich and bring you a beer.

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    Have 2 tv's or tell her that you like sports, i wouldnt deal with that crap

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    The amount of sound advices in this thread
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    Next time you have a day off, make a last minute plan that cant involve her, like having to help your mom or dad or friend fix something in their house and check her reaction.

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    I suggest divorce, that'll fix all your problems.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mr KLC View Post
    Sounds like a possible trust issue. If this continues, you might want to thnk about breaking it off if it bothers you that much. If you are looking for some space, and she will not give it to you, then she's definitely not the right one for you.

    +1

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eleven View Post
    Next time you have a day off, make a last minute plan that cant involve her, like having to help your mom or dad or friend fix something in their house and check her reaction.
    I can already guess the OP's answer. She will be shocked and say..."Oh, well...... i can go help if you want." Or..."I can just hang out with your family"

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    you guys give terrible advice. its comical reading the responses. no wonder everyone says this is a degenerate forum

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