1. 04-10-11 12:42 PM #1
    ThaWoj
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    She said she needs her space...

    we're not even dating but she said she feels like we are because we've been talking and hanging out too much and that she doesnt like feeling like shes in a relationship. so question is should i just completely stop talking/facebook/texting/etc her and let her talk to me when SHE feels like it? i dont like that cuz then i feel she has all the power and what if she just completely forgets about me. i mean i do kinda like the girl but shes really more of just a friend and i dont wanna lose that. the other hard part is we work together.

    also the thing is she was asking me to hang all the time in the first place but then kinda pulled back and thats why i've been asking her more recently.
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  2. 04-10-11 01:26 PM #2
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    Ask her to hook you up with one of her girl friends,if she doesn't tell her to go f*** herself
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  3. 04-10-11 01:27 PM #3
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    Yea. Definitely back off. But still send a cute txt or email every couple of days, so she knows your still interested.
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  4. 04-10-11 01:28 PM #4
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    when you act like you dont care about her..thats when she'll find you most attractive. thats the fcked up thing about most of the girls these days..just go hang with your boys, go on dates since you're not "attached" to noone. trust me, give it a week the most before she starts bugging the hell outta you again
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  5. 04-10-11 01:32 PM #5
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    forget about it. move on
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  6. 04-10-11 01:37 PM #6
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    You like her or you wouldn't have made this post. Back off, you can't be clingy. Give it a week then contact her again...or around work. If it doesn't work out then **** it and move on.
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  7. 04-10-11 01:44 PM #7
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThaWoj View Post
    we're not even dating but she said she feels like we are because we've been talking and hanging out too much and that she doesnt like feeling like shes in a relationship. so question is should i just completely stop talking/facebook/texting/etc her and let her talk to me when SHE feels like it? i dont like that cuz then i feel she has all the power and what if she just completely forgets about me. i mean i do kinda like the girl but shes really more of just a friend and i dont wanna lose that. the other hard part is we work together.

    also the thing is she was asking me to hang all the time in the first place but then kinda pulled back and thats why i've been asking her more recently.
    I would say just back off but the bolded thing makes it weird. Don't be a dick if you see her at work, just wave or say hi, like you normally would. Just be chill.
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  8. 04-10-11 01:50 PM #8
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    she wants nothin to do with you sorry bud
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  9. 04-10-11 01:58 PM #9
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    I didn't even have to read the second half of the OP.

    Move on, she's politely telling you to do just that.

    If you don't move on the next words out of her mouth will be something like "get a clue loser, what did you think I need my space meant, I love you?"
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  10. 04-10-11 02:14 PM #10
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    Give it to her then see wt happens in a few wks
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  11. 04-10-11 02:18 PM #11
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    dont listen to them. nothing screams i think we have something here like a restraining order!
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  12. 04-10-11 03:07 PM #12
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThaWoj View Post
    we're not even dating but she said she feels like we are because we've been talking and hanging out too much and that she doesnt like feeling like shes in a relationship. so question is should i just completely stop talking/facebook/texting/etc her and let her talk to me when SHE feels like it? i dont like that cuz then i feel she has all the power and what if she just completely forgets about me. i mean i do kinda like the girl but shes really more of just a friend and i dont wanna lose that. the other hard part is we work together.

    also the thing is she was asking me to hang all the time in the first place but then kinda pulled back and thats why i've been asking her more recently.
    Quick question. Are you known to be a party guy, but the stuff you had turned out to be shit?
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  13. 04-10-11 03:15 PM #13
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    Iv'e heard that one before, "I need my space" basically means your done for, giv it up pal always fun while it lasted. Time to move on to the next bird
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  14. 04-10-11 03:16 PM #14
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    You guys are slacking. Post her picture. Only then can an accurate analysis be made. Do it, do it.
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  15. 04-10-11 03:21 PM #15
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    Chicks use that phrase when there trying to make there point politley, met another dude im done with you basically
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  16. 04-10-11 03:21 PM #16
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    find some new pussy
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  17. 04-10-11 03:24 PM #17
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    ^
    My point, exactly

    Even if the new guy doesn't work out, she's not going backwards.

    Stick a fork in the OP, he's done.
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  18. 04-10-11 03:27 PM #18
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    It means she wants nothing to do with you
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  19. 04-10-11 03:34 PM #19
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    unfortunately, you just gotta stop talking to her. She doesn't have feelings for you, and even if she does (highly unlikely), you don't want to be with someone who needs space all the time like that. SOrry bro
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  20. 04-10-11 03:35 PM #20
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    this is a damn sports betting forum
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  21. 04-10-11 04:42 PM #21
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    Don't talk to her for a week. If she calls you, act like nothing happened and you have just been busy. If that doesn't do it. Move on from this.
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  22. 04-10-11 05:02 PM #22
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    Unless she is the only girl you have ever met/been with in your whole life then you should get over it and move on.

    There are plenty of women to care about out there that will return the favor and not need some space, heh.
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  23. 04-10-11 06:38 PM #23
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    ya leave it and move on m8
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  24. 04-10-11 06:59 PM #24
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    Seems she wanted attention, she sought it and got it from you now her appetite has been met and she can do without. I say let her be, dont seem needy or anything, since you work with her seems you see her enough anyway.
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  25. 04-10-11 07:01 PM #25
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThaWoj View Post
    the other hard part is we work together.
    Don't shit where you eat.

    Just let it cool right off, then move on.
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  26. 04-10-11 07:51 PM #26
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    Back off.
    Let her initiate conversation with you.
    If she feels like she is in a relationship with you and wants space that means she found someone else or she wants you out.
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  27. 04-10-11 08:00 PM #27
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    Ignore her. If you can get her to hear about you with, or see you with another girl that is optimal. The most brutal part about women is if the girl you are seen "with" is ugly or fat it will make her even more jealous, but you can't go wrong with a hot chick either. I basically gave up on using "logic" with women and if you don't, you are in for a lifetime of hurt.

    It basically goes like this. Think of situation X and what a sane, normal, educated and rational person would do. Next, think of what the farthest opposite of that found conclusion could be. That is what she is thinking/what you should do about the situation/etc. Works every time.
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  28. 04-10-11 08:40 PM #28
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    Quote Originally Posted by warriorfan707 View Post
    this is a damn sports betting forum

    like 70% of these threads are soap opera material
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  29. 04-10-11 08:44 PM #29
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    i need space = i got new d!ck because yours isnt satisfying anymore
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  30. 04-10-11 09:19 PM #30
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    Lol lots of good advices here I can see.. lol
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  31. 04-10-11 10:00 PM #31
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    Shes screwing your friend
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  32. 04-10-11 10:27 PM #32
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    Quote Originally Posted by ThaWoj View Post
    the other hard part is we work together.
    You have to quit that job.
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  33. 04-11-11 12:12 AM #33
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    Ignore her if she calls you back in a few days take it right to the hole, if not move on !!!!
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  34. 04-11-11 01:08 AM #34
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    Move on stand up for yourself. And just the grinch`s heart. Your BB balls will grow 10x`s larger
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  35. 04-11-11 01:27 AM #35
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    you're fcked, move on
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