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    Dating advice

    After a long time of being single and just loving the fact that i can do whatever i want whenever i want. I have decided to join one of the dating sites like match.com or eharmony. havent decided which one yet. Reasoning behind this is i come from a relatively small family and usually visit my parents about once a week.And have just noticed in the last 6-12 months that they have really lost a step and its time to just grow up a little bit. But my question is when going on a blind date how do i handle the gambling issue. do i not say anything in the beginning. if i comtinue to see the girl how long do i wait to talk about it or do i not talk about it.

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    DO NOT TALK ABOUT GAMBLING!!!!!!z

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    theres no reason to bring it up unless thats your only source of income

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    You have a better chance going to your local coffee shop or gym and finding a better girl there. How old are you? Colleges/Universities are prime time spots as well.

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    just do facebook, free and 100x more single women

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    The chick is going to ask you what you like to do...

    TV, movies, music, sports, fitness, reading ( have to throw something like that in there), GAMBLING, drinking. The chick asks you if you gamble say yes. Some chicks like to gamble. If she acts act like it's not a big deal. Chicks want to avoid druggies and alcoholics, a girl you age probably doesn't even know not to date gamblers.

    Besides, tell her you'd bet on her.

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    Quote Originally Posted by CanuckG View Post
    You have a better chance going to your local coffee shop or gym and finding a better girl there. How old are you? Colleges/Universities are prime time spots as well.
    34

    not looking to meet a girl at a bar. thats kid sh1t. im looking for a large volume of dates. would like to give my parents a grandkid in the next 24 months while they can still enjoy it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ebbearsfb1 View Post
    theres no reason to bring it up unless thats your only source of income
    its not like you can avoid the subject.

    34 year old guy. relatively good looking. why still single and no real relationships to speak of in the last 10-12 years. much easier to just bang wh0res for that time so i can get home to watch the games. of course cant tell her that

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    Are you looking for a guy or girl?

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    I guess it depends on if you are a recreational gambler or if you rely on it for money and/or betting HUGE sums of money. If it is something that you do for income...you kinda have to tell her. If its a recreational thing...no need to bring it up for a long while.

    You can say you enjoy sports...but don't tell her that gambling is part of it. Keep that for a much later conversation, like a few months down the road.

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    Quote Originally Posted by AMBlai01 View Post
    I guess it depends on if you are a recreational gambler or if you rely on it for money and/or betting HUGE sums of money. If it is something that you do for income...you kinda have to tell her. If its a recreational thing...no need to bring it up for a long while.

    You can say you enjoy sports...but don't tell her that gambling is part of it. Keep that for a much later conversation, like a few months down the road.
    well it's definitely recreational just based on the fact that i take a fu**kin beatin because i dont know what im doing.

    but it is rather large sums of money

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    its not like you can avoid the subject.

    34 year old guy. relatively good looking. why still single and no real relationships to speak of in the last 10-12 years. much easier to just bang wh0res for that time so i can get home to watch the games. of course cant tell her that
    Don't bring up gambling bro. Only after the hooks are in her real good. I'm 36 and its not so easy for us. I would try the dating websites if I were single. Only reason I have a girl is because I use to sell a lot of coke and was a big baller. I grabbed a russian chick and kept her for 6 years now. I did all the bullshit bro. If you find a good one, hold onto it. Not that many for us.

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    My wife didn't know I was a sports gambler till 2 yrs into our marriage. She actually enjoys watching sports when she knows "we" have some $ on the line.

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    Gambling is such a bland and distasteful word. Why not something fanciful like: "I'm a financial consultant for a sports firm" or "an intermediary for an investment firm that deals with top-notch sporting prospects." Be creative and deceptive, not honest and naive. Most girls despise gamblers, period. I made the mistake of telling several girls that I dated that I like to gamble, and their entire demeanor just changed into either one of absolute disgust or that shit-faced expression of "WHAT A DAMN LOSER!" But when you tell them shit like the stuff mentioned above, they go: "Wow! That's so cool!"

    Don't ever tell anyone you get to close to, not even your parents or best friends who don't gamble, that you gamble!

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    who gives a fuk? Are u really asking this question????

    Just act like a normal human being, and if u tell her u gamble no big fuckingg deal...if she wants to stress it, then fuckk her.

    WOW

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    34

    not looking to meet a girl at a bar. thats kid sh1t. im looking for a large volume of dates. would like to give my parents a grandkid in the next 24 months while they can still enjoy it.
    No one said anything about a bar. A bar would be the last place.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dirty Sanchez View Post
    Are you looking for a guy or girl?

    Seriously laughing out loud at this one.

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    def dont mention it unless she ask and then u have to decide

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    34

    not looking to meet a girl at a bar. thats kid sh1t. im looking for a large volume of dates. would like to give my parents a grandkid in the next 24 months while they can still enjoy it.

    The biggest thing you do not tell chicks is that you want to use them for a kid... You want kids within 24 months just for your parents enjoyment. You are crazy.

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    i suggest you tell her unless its a big problem. otherwise keep it a secret

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    Why would you talk about it? Durr.

    FYI Okcupid.com is free and not too bad. I have ****** a couple whackjobs from Match, it's not too bad. Don't do E-Harmony wayyyyyyyy too expensive man.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    well it's definitely recreational just based on the fact that i take a fu**kin beatin because i dont know what im doing. but it is rather large sums of money
    The bigger problem is that you suck at gambling. If you suck, dont do it. Doing something over and over again that doesnt work is the definition of insanity.

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    yeah tell her that you've lost tens of thousands gamlbing on the first date, and tell us how it turns from there.

    seriously, don't mention it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by robzilla View Post
    The bigger problem is that you suck at gambling. If you suck, dont do it. Doing something over and over again that doesnt work is the definition of insanity.
    no sh1t i suck pal.

    just like 98% of the people on sbr.

    but its fun. thats why we dont stop

    i guess you are on e of the 4 posters on here that wins

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    no sh1t i suck pal.

    just like 98% of the people on sbr.

    but its fun. thats why we dont stop

    i guess you are on e of the 4 posters on here that wins
    Fukk these dudes bronxer. Are you in ny area at all. I could hook you up bro. My girls friend is a 36 year old hot italian broad. Bitch drives a clk benz 2010. Only thing is, she's dumb as shit. She just needs proper guidance. I hook you up homie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrace35 View Post
    Fukk these dudes bronxer. Are you in ny area at all. I could hook you up bro. My girls friend is a 36 year old hot italian broad. Bitch drives a clk benz 2010. Only thing is, she's dumb as shit. She just needs proper guidance. I hook you up homie.
    im down tracer

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    im down tracer
    You have facebook? Ill let you look first.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrace35 View Post
    You have facebook? Ill let you look first.
    no facebook.

    i'm as they say not computer advanced.

    what is it anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dirty Sanchez View Post
    Are you looking for a guy or girl?
    This is the best question asked so far.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    no facebook.

    i'm as they say not computer advanced.

    what is it anyway.
    Just a site that everybody has and people put up pictures of themselves. Go to facebook.com. Go to where it says "search for friends". Ill pm you the bitches name in a minute.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    well it's definitely recreational just based on the fact that i take a fu**kin beatin because i dont know what im doing.

    but it is rather large sums of money
    This will be great to tell her!

    Will insure only girl droppin her panties for you is an ugly whore, unless you're rich and large sums are just fun money in which case you will have a baby in 10 months

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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrace35 View Post
    Just a site that everybody has and people put up pictures of themselves. Go to facebook.com. Go to where it says "search for friends". Ill pm you the bitches name in a minute.
    i know what it is. just dont have a profile there. send me the info

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    Lemme know if you get the pm. I never pm anybody before.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ttrace35 View Post
    Lemme know if you get the pm. I never pm anybody before.
    i didnt get it. hit the message me under my avatar

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    Quote Originally Posted by Br0nxer View Post
    i didnt get it. hit the message me under my avatar
    It won't work for me. Pm me. I can only reply for some reason.

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