After a long time of being single and just loving the fact that i can do whatever i want whenever i want. I have decided to join one of the dating sites like match.com or eharmony. havent decided which one yet. Reasoning behind this is i come from a relatively small family and usually visit my parents about once a week.And have just noticed in the last 6-12 months that they have really lost a step and its time to just grow up a little bit. But my question is when going on a blind date how do i handle the gambling issue. do i not say anything in the beginning. if i comtinue to see the girl how long do i wait to talk about it or do i not talk about it.