Originally Posted by
rsnnh12
There is middle ground, though. You can entrust this man with the well-being of your child to an extent, but does that mean your son should be sleeping over? Going to the gym late at night with just that man?
I'm sorry, but I don't see how anyone could let their 10 year old child end up staying overnight at an older mans house, regardless of how well-respected he is. To me, that is terrible parenting. Mentoring doesn't happen while people are sleeping, there is NO reason for a child to spend the night with a mentor, unsupervised by a parent. None at all.