[opie1988]

How about you hauling your ass out of my way and don't tell me what the fukk to post and I will stay the fukk out of you way? Comprende?

Get over yourself, freakshow. You started with me, ace. Go make another "awkward" video of yourself.

Comprende?

[pavyracer]

Get over yourself, freakshow. You started with me, ace. Go make another "awkward" video of yourself.

Comprende?

Lets meet somewhere and I dare you to say these things in my face. I was threatened once by a cripple here who wanted to take a piece of me from his wheelchair. I showed up. He didn't. I won.

[rsnnh12]

Lets meet somewhere and I dare you to say these things in my face. I was threatened once by a cripple here who wanted to take a piece of me from his wheelchair. I showed up. He didn't. I won.

[teaserpleaser]

Great thread so far boring here on mod work duty only thing keeping me awake

[laclippers504]

Not laughing at the being homeless part BUT...man,anybody that is basing their livelihood off betpoints....no good man....no good. Good luck to you though.

[BGS 9.5]

Looks like we have some heavyweights tanglin up in here

[iifold]

We need a line on Pavy vs. Opie...

[Swinging Johnson]

Pavy, you even think about mussing up Opie's hair and I will tell everyone you wear skin bronzer and eyeliner. You're very clever the way you conceal it but I know your savvy cosmetic tricks and soon so shall everyone else if you continue with your threats against SBR's national treasure.

[SBR_John]

LOL. I'd put Opie at 6'4" 235 lbs and athletic. I've stood next to both. If these two ever got together it would turn into a foot race. No way Pavy could out run him. My line would be Opie would catch him in 26 seconds and the beating would last another 9 seconds. So Over/Under until Pavy is caught and subdued: 35 seconds -115.

[pavyracer]

LOL. I'd put Opie at 6'4" 235 lbs and athletic. I've stood next to both. If these two ever got together it would turn into a foot race. No way Pavy could out run him. My line would be Opie would catch him in 26 seconds and the beating would last another 9 seconds. So Over/Under until Pavy is caught and subdued: 35 seconds -115.

Make it happen and put up the prizes.

We will have a wrestling much and a foot race and see who wins.
Make sure you supply Opie with plenty of make up and hair gel. He will need it.

[wtf]

maybe you two can go bowling see who the real man is

[mattmc419]

There's an Indian casino a 45 minute drive away from my hometown and my friends and I started going a few times a week when I was 16, maybe a few months short. Other than when I moved away from there for a year, we kept that up until I was probably 22 or 23. I've seen several sick dealer runs and I've seen players threaten to kill the dealer, throw drinks at them, etc... Bad runs happen on both sides of the table. It's just that when they happen to the dealer, most people convince themselves it was a result of their genius play.

This.

Even with perfect basic strategy flat betting the house still has a small edge. So any winning is just getting lucky.

People are still crazy for not participating in the 3:1 blackjack promos though, where the player has a 6% edge.

[rfr3sh]

Pretty sure you need GA I cant even begin to figure out how a person does this

[laclippers504]

maybe you two can go bowling see who the real man is

Lol

[sneakerhead]

sorry to hear about your loss

[opie1988]

All love for all my chit-chat brethren, Pavy included.

I'm just still a little shook up that this fukker had 43,850 more points than I do.....

[zam77]

Points... the end.

[sideloaded]

people talking about GA need to STFU. The only way to get that money back is to deposit at a SBR sponsored book and gamble more. A 500 dollar 8 team parlay would do the trick.

[William Walters]

All love for all my chit-chat brethren, Pavy included.

I'm just still a little shook up that this fukker had 43,850 more points than I do.....

Credit to you 88 for not going tough guy on us with Pavy. We all know the end result of a "meeting" would not work out very well for our fellow poster Pavy.

[spankie]

LOOK WHAT YOU DID SBR.

YOU made this man homeless.

Well at least we get a new chat room out of it.

[pavyracer]

Credit to you 88 for not going tough guy on us with Pavy. We all know the end result of a "meeting" would not work out very well for our fellow poster Pavy.

Maybe you can take Opie's place since he is too busy to roughen me up. What do you say Billie?

[teaserpleaser]

What level of homelessness are we talking here? Sleeping on a buddys floor or homeless homeless begging,and just standing around. There are different levels ... If just bouncing around you will be okay gl bounce back ... Fast!!

[Demonata]

Man sorry that happened to you.

[Demonata]

screw casinos. Especially online casinoes. At least with sports betting you know that your team can win or lose. With online casinoes they do cheat.

[VegasInsider]

I really wish I had compassion here, but I just don't.

35K points in one night is straight degen status.

Getting points to purchase items from the store and sell them so you can live is just horrible.

Get a job, with a paycheck. Cash your paycheck, pay your bills. It's pretty simple.

[Demonata]

I really wish I had compassion here, but I just don't. 35K points in one night is straight degen status. Getting points to purchase items from the store and sell them so you can live is just horrible. Get a job, with a paycheck. Cash your paycheck, pay your bills. It's pretty simple.

Man it is not the easiest to get a job now adays. It is even hard getting fast food jobs.

[Hoja Verdes]

no, i only have 1 family member, my dad and he lives in chicago which is 950 miles away. theres a couple good homeless shelters in dowtown new orleans, i think the red cross sponsors one, im not sure. as long as they have water there and a place to use a bathroom and a place to sleep indoors. i know most of the homeless males in new orleans sleep outside though. most of the indoor shelters are for females.

This may not help, but here's a positive spin on it. If you would have bought ipads and stuff you could turn into cash, it still would have only been enough to last you a couple months. Then what? So this may have just been a way to go ahead and face the inevitable reality of your situation rather than delaying it 60 days. I hate it for you, but eventually you have to pull yourself up by your bootstraps, get a job, and get on with your life. If betpoints were your only "assets," then you must admit you were living in a bit of a fantasy world. Losing them and stepping away from the internet and SBR for a few months will probably end up being a blessing in disguise. Take this as a sign, and good luck getting back on your feet.

[YorkHunt]

how are you posting?

[teaserpleaser]

how are you posting?

Library? Internet cafe?

[excel]

This thread should be printed on the back of every scratch and parlay card. Everyone thinking about gambling should have to read this first. Keep your head up pal.

On a side note... I've never seen anyone come out of the casino with 100-200k I think the average huge(rare) win is around 30-60k before they(poster) usually give it all back.

[Nookx]

LOl, well if u really needed the points then you screwed up. Take this as a learning experience and start practicing discipline and you may be able to win at life. If not you will be just like everyone else. YOU LACKA DISCIPLINE SIR!

[Mikail]

another sbr ghost wins big in the sbr casino and loses it all back. Nothing new here.

[Tech N9ne]

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There are alternative behaviors you can substitute for gambling. Some examples include: Reason for Gambling Sample Substitute Behaviors To provide excitement, get a rush of adrenaline Sport or a challenging hobby, such as mountain biking, rock climbing, or Go Kart racing To be more social, overcome shyness Counseling, enroll in a public speaking class, join a social group To numb unpleasant feelings, not think about problems Therapy, consult Helpguide’s Bring Your Life into Balance toolkit Boredom or loneliness Find something you’re passionate about such as art, music, sports, or books then find others with the same interests To relax after a stressful day As little as 15 minutes of daily exercise can relieve stress. 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If you or someone you care about is suicidal, call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-TALK. Related articles: Helping a Suicidal Person If You're Feeling Suicidal Tools for family members of problem gamblers: Start by helping yourself. You have a right to protect yourself emotionally and financially. Don’t blame yourself for the gambler’s problems. The right support can help you make positive choices for yourself, and balance encouraging your loved one to get help without losing yourself in the process. Don’t go it alone. It can feel so overwhelming coping with a loved one’s problem gambling that it may seem easier to rationalize their requests and problems “this one last time”. Or you might feel ashamed, feeling like you are the only one who has problems like this. Reaching out for support will make you realize that many families have struggled with this problem. Or you might consider therapy to help sort out the complicated feelings that arise from coping with a problem gambler. Set boundaries in managing money. If a loved one is serious about getting help for problem gambling, it may help if you take over the family finances to make sure the gambler stays accountable and to prevent relapse. However, this does not mean you are responsible for micromanaging the problem gamblers impulses to gamble. Your first responsibilities are to ensure that your own finances and credit are not at risk. Consider how you will handle requests for money. Problem gamblers often become very good at asking for money, either directly or indirectly. They may use pleading, manipulation or even threats and blaming to get it. It takes time and practice to learn how you will respond to these requests to ensure you are not enabling the problem gambler and keeping your own dignity intact. Do’s and Don't for Partners of Problem Gamblers Do Seek the support of others with similar problems; attend a self-help group for families such as Gam-Anon. Explain problem gambling to the children. Recognize your partner’s good qualities. Remain calm when speaking to your partner about his or her gambling and its consequences. Let your partner know that you are seeking help for your own sake because of the way gambling affects you and the children. Understand the need for treatment of problem gambling despite the time it may involve. Take control of family finances; review bank and CC statements. Don’t Preach, lecture, or allow yourself to lose control of your anger. Make threats or issue ultimatums unless you intend to carry them out. Exclude the gambler from family life and activities. Expect immediate recovery, or that all problems will be resolved when the gambling stops. Bail out the gambler. Cover-up or deny the existence of the problem to yourself, the family, or others. Source: Dept. of Mental Health & Addiction Services

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[Naz18]

Casinos win in the long run.....doesn't matter if its online or an actual building on land...

[William Walters]

Maybe you can take Opie's place since he is too busy to roughen me up. What do you say Billie?

I've seen your video