Originally Posted by
Masu485
I don't know what it is. Maybe no one respects me, but I find it extremely annoying how in about a month, I've been screwed over by almost everyone I know regarding plans to go out. I have like 3 or 4 'groups' I chill with.
1. A few weeks ago, my cousin says he's coming into town and bringing a couple of mutual friends, along with 3 or 4 girls. The whole week we're talking about what club we'll be going to on Saturday. Of course, I get kind of pumped for this. Then Saturday comes, no call. Time is passing by, and at 11 I get frustrated and call him. He tells me he's still out of town because no one wanted to drive to my town so they were partying up there. It made me furious. I had previously cancelled going to a house party up north, in order to hang with my cousin, then he pulls this. And of course, this house party was considered the best party anyone had ever been to. It was basically stripping and random hookups. My kind of party. Angry that the night was dead for me, and also angry that he wouldn't even have called.
2. I started going clubbing with this guy from my gym recently. It is kind of fun, but this guy is the opposite problem. He gives me no advance warning, he just shows up at my place and tells me to hurry up. And it's usually on a weird day like Monday or Wednesday when I'm not expecting it. Nothing I hate more than being rushed, but I still end up going because I like to go out.
3. Yesterday, a friend calls me and says he has 3 tickets to a club thing tonight and asks if I wanted to go with him and his girlfriend. So of course I say yes, but having been screwed by this guy in the past, I didn't want to depend on it. He says he'll pass by around 9 but he'll call before. So of course again, the time passes by, and at this point I don't even get ready because in my heart I know he'll just forget and won't pass by. So here we are 2 hours later, no call to cancel, nothing. I just went on FB to see if I could find a clue to where he is, and on his girlfriend's wall I see her friend telling her and my friend to hurry up because they're gonna be late for a house party.
So depressed as hell, I just closed the page, knowing where that piece of shit ran off to now. And again, no call to cancel or anything. Even considering we made plans he should have been courteous to ask if I'd be allowed to join that house party, but I'm sure he didn't ask. So once again, here I am on a Friday with nothing to do. I don't know why, maybe I just suck at plans, but I'm considering just cutting all these people out of my life and be left with nothing. I'd be happier.