and that also leads me to my next question: how do some of you guys sleep with these girls when the time you spend together is all silence? my old room mate use to do this with girls he had over during the day. they would sit there and not say a word and they would end up hooking up... whenever im with a girl i feel like i need to keep the conversation going to ensure they get naked. must be you guys get bred and have nothing else ot do in life but hump...?