thanks, bt... im not an emotional person and get through tough times easier since i quit asking questions a long time ago... i seem to fair better, mentally, than those around me who ask why why why and try to rack their brains around the pain that a God brings...
why why why...well, its Gods will... oh okay, well that makes it much easier to understand and i dont hurt as much lolz
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i guess if the theory eases the pain and allows people to take some comfort, then do what you gotta do to get through tough times... i suppose this has always been part of the philosophy/theory... dont bother questioning why its allowed to happen , you will never get an answer, just an illogical and completely made up excuse...you are better off when you realize that shit just happens... being manipulated by the unproven has to put a lot of wear and tear on the psyche