Originally posted on 09/18/2014:

So i joined an online matching site (pof) and I made a profile without uploading a picture and after a few hours of messaging different women I finally just got a response from one and after a little chat, i set something up for this Saturday! I have the place to myself for the evening so i invited her over for coffee. She didn't hesitate and agreed to the date. I used coffee as an excuse for a date, but obviously nobody drinks coffee at night so I believe she wants to have sex. From what i got so far, she is 28 years old and her name is Eliza. The only thing is she does not have an uploaded picture yet either but in her description she has "non-smoker with a few extra pounds". I'm not sure if i should take that as a warning sign or not? Is it rude to ask her to send a picture before our date? I really hope we can have sex when she comes over.