Originally posted on 02/04/2014:

Indoor rollerblading is an awesome idea, but probably not for the first date and first time hanging out with someone. Standard for me is usually get a few drinks and then if there's no spark or connection either of you has the option to cut it short in a graceful manner. If you don't drink a lite lunch maybe wouldn't be a bad idea with the possibility of taking a stroll after if things go well or going someplace you know great for dessert or coffee.

I think calling her ahead of time is up to you.

Don't have any doubts about yourself regardless of your insecurities, woman have just as many if not more. Stay calm, relax, get to know her and have fun and stay positive! (Woman you just meet dont want to hear about your gambling escapades, win or lose) And be yourself most of all. If you do those things and treat her like a lady (pull out chair, pay for meal, open doors, be kind and respectful) you won't have to worry about embarrassing granny, make her proud Saer.