I have love occasionally but you might have me mixed up with another poster. My girlfriend is bipolar and her son is ADHD. It's stressful but I guess we have good moments. I try to think out of the box and ease in-house tension. My parents died early and I only have little contact with a couple of relatives (A lot of family members with cancer, etc and taken too soon). I try to enjoy life and ultimately I can still look at the good side of life. This is just a storm. My username is will2survive because I have survived a lot . I've mentioned on the site(at nauseum) that I've had 3 surgeries this past year. The luck will turn, the pendulum will swing in my favor. If I keep saying it, I'll believe it. You have a nice day.