Originally posted on 08/04/2012:
There are times I miss being married, but just for the things married people and families do and plan together.
But, as sad and cynical as it sounds, I think Mike is right. Once you get over the idea that you are supposed to be the man of the house that looks after everyone, and learn to feel comfortable just looking after yourself (which is a tough change for lots of guys)... being single in your 40s is kinda nice. It's amazing feeling free to choose to do or not do whatever the hell I want without anyone else to consider, after a whole adult life being taught not to think that way!