I always had $70ish stuck in my bitpay wallet which I could not send it nor top it up to my debit card. One day, I was playing around with setting and found out I can manually change the amount of fee. Without knowing the appropriate amount, I just chose $3.00 in fee and sent it (was spending around $9-10 at the time to send). Well, this fee is apparently way too low for miners to confirm my transaction which is fine but how long do I have to wait before they just drop this transaction and return the coin back to my wallet?? from what I read online, it takes 72 hours to a week... but it's already been 12 days for mine and I do not think there is any chance of getting it confirmed anytime soon since when i check mempool.space/tx/7db1ea44d558b501ae0600f4babe570dc1fb770f b79698fecaff8db49f7ae8ca, it's keep getting pushed back... any help??? already used multiple bitcoin accelerators and no help at all... and I do not want to spend $300-500 to accelerate $67 worth of bitcoin.