[InTheDrink]

drinker those bouncy red balls distract me from the subject at hand guey

[King Mayan]

Mayan.......we've always been cool.........and you know I respect the fact that you served our country. So, I ask this as an e-pal.........why is it that you always find yourself in the middle of e-race-wars?

IMHO.........today just isn't the day.

Hey William, I'm not the one that brings that shit up... Talk to your peeps...

[shari91]

i'm sure there is no preparation for 20 kids, a teacher and the principal being killed...in fact it's sickening to think that there might be some protocol in the future on how to handle events like these

i tend to cut the adults who were in charge some slack considering i'm 800 miles away and my own mind was reeling when i heard the details

Dude, forgive me if it sounded like I was criticising or judging anyone as that was so not my intention. I just always think of the US as trying to be at the forefront of everything if that makes sense. And advising parents of the death of their children in this manner surely can't be. If it takes another hour because you need to pull more psychs in, make excuses, no? I think my problem is that like a crazy woman I keep thinking of the guys here that I know have kids. And I just keep picturing us walking in and some of us seeing our children and some not. Regardless of how we'd react in emergency situations, there's a reason professionals who deal with this were dispatched to the school immediately = purely so the average joe teacher wouldn't have to make these decisions that are way out of their competency. Again I'm not sure what the proper way to advise parents of this would be but I strongly do not think this was it.

[shari91]

This psycho shoot his mother in the face so if he shot kids in the face too you could see why it would take a while to make identifications. You do not want to tell the wrong parent their kid is dead.

Fair enough but you get the parents in to make IDs instead? Because that's what they did. Take 8hrs if necessary to sort things out properly... that's my point.

Don't send everyone in hoping they see their child to not only find their baby isn't there but then to see the relief/tears of other families when they realise theirs is. That doesn't seem unnecessarily cruel?

[InTheDrink]

Dude, forgive me if it sounded like I was criticising or judging anyone as that was so not my intention. I just always think of the US as trying to be at the forefront of everything if that makes sense. And advising parents of the death of their children in this manner surely can't be. If it takes another hour because you need to pull more psychs in, make excuses, no? I think my problem is that like a crazy woman I keep thinking of the guys here that I know have kids. And I just keep picturing us walking in and some of us seeing our children and some not. Regardless of how we'd react in emergency situations, there's a reason professionals who deal with this were dispatched to the school immediately = purely so the average joe teacher wouldn't have to make these decisions that are way out of their competency. Again I'm not sure what the proper way to advise parents of this would be but I strongly do not think this was it.

taking an hour to unite kids with their parents would surely cause more harm to the kids than would help the situation....and im not trying to be critical of your comment, but im just saying there was most likely no right answer given the resources on hand at the time...like i said in another post if there were a few kids then i'm sure it could have been handled delicately but 20 sets of parents....holy shit...overwhelming

[shari91]

taking an hour to unite kids with their parents would surely cause more harm to the kids than would help the situation....and im not trying to be critical of your comment, but im just saying there was most likely no right answer given the resources on hand at the time...like i said in another post if there were a few kids then i'm sure it could have been handled delicately but 20 sets of parents....holy shit...overwhelming

I don't think the time frame would have harmed the kids... no concept at that point as long at they have full bellies and are entertained. But I do see your point about being overwhelmed. Easy for me to say I guess how I'd appreciate it being handled if it were my baby or one of your guys'... much different when you're actually the person making the decisions after only practicing this at St John's on a dummy. I get that. I still feel the whole thing was horribly cruel but your point is very well taken Drinker.

[King Mayan]

How tough is it for those cops/forensics to walk in that classroom and look at all those lil innocent kids shot in the head.. Fukking tough man.. That type if shit you never forget... Nightmares for life..

[EaglesPhan36]

Kevin Durant ... classy.

[B1GER1C828]

This psycho shoot his mother in the face so if he shot kids in the face too you could see why it would take a while to make identifications. You do not want to tell the wrong parent their kid is dead.

you are so right. The parents know their kid is dead, because if they weren't dead then they would be with them. BUT, one simple mistake on this could be devastating. They have to go by protocol and of course it sucks, but they really have to do it how they are doing it.

Of course, this is just unprecedented, perhaps protocol goes out the window. You still need to just make sure you don't make a devastating mistake that changes even more lives.

[InTheDrink]

KD = one of the good guys

[shari91]

How tough is it for those cops/forensics to walk in that classroom and look at all those lil innocent kids shot in the head.. Fukking tough man.. That type if shit you never forget... Nightmares for life..

They're amazing people doing the things we'd never wish on our worst enemy. Yet most of us call them pigs and disparage them some other way daily. It's one thing to go to work and not be sure if you have to work hard, what meetings you have, etc. It's another to not have any warning this is what you'll be dealing with. I need to start honouring the cops around me more.

[InTheDrink]

art is good people

[hels]

art is good people

Art needs to join the roster of creamteam2013

We need more Arts in this world.

[rfr3sh]

I have a question maybe a religious person can help
so I am not religious but I have heard god will always forgive you of your sins
so if this guy asked for forgiveness would god have forgiven him?

[WvGambler]

Kevin Durant ... classy.

Such a small thing, but so cool at the same time. Everything I hear about KD is positive. Just seems like this kid gets it.

[darkhat]

edit: everyone in thread good peoples

wish the best for people dealing with real problems like CT

[opie1988]

This would drive me absolutely insane. I would be a basket case already, but knowing my little boy was in that room lying on the floor, surrounded by death would hurt so much more. I'd want to stay the night in there with him.

It's amazing how just thinking about it makes me feel so hopeless.

I'll be goddamned if they'd keep me away from my kid.

They better fukkin taze me and the sedate me, because there's absolutely no chance I'm not getting to my kid.

[darkhat]

this whole situation is out of hand

seriously, what kind of person do you have to be to do something like this

completely selfish and horrible

[TheMoneyShot]

I just hope some a-hole doesn't try and mirror what happened today on 12/21/12. You know how weird people get.

[Optional]

I can't begin to imagine waiting in that room for my child to never arrive.

Man, I feel sick for them.

[InTheDrink]

i fukkin hate the media

and i fukkin hate facebook about 100 times more than the media

[Deuce]

I am at a loss for words.

This world is a fukked up place. Right of left, male or female, we need to come together and bring an end to this madness. I can't imagine having a child not only die this heinous way but to leave a baby laying dead in their blood on the floor of their murder scene 15 hours later. Fukk. People need to talk to their children, reach out to people. Find out their issues. Get them help. We need to be responsible, people need to be accountable.

[rfr3sh]

I do not have a child yet..maybe in a few years. but I still cannot fathom having to bury my child that is a nightmare I would not wish upon my worst enemy

[paranoyd androyd]

everyone was at the firehouse next door to the school and all the parents were trying to find their kids. when all the kids were matched up with their parents, they pretty much made an announcement saying no more kids will be coming out of the school. the parents who hadnt found their kids yet knew at that moment they their children were dead. witnesses said they were screaming and crying and falling to the ground.

that sounds like the worst possible way of handling this situation. must've been sheer chaos at that point.

[Smoke]

Drinker darker mikeyanks bigfoot group hug

[InTheDrink]

Drinker darker mikeyanks bigfoot group hug

smoker darker mikeyanks bigfoot get over here

[hels]

Drinker darker mikeyanks bigfoot group hug

Smoker, I'd be honored if I could join the group hug, even if I'm on the outside and not a member of the inner hug circle.

[InTheDrink]

Smoker, I'd be honored if I could join the group hug, even if I'm on the outside and not a member of the inner hug circle.

hels get in here you sonovabitch

[Thor4140]

When Obama takes the guns the criminals will be the only ones with weapons!!!

Yeah okay and trickledown economics work and Ira

[paranoyd androyd]

I have a question maybe a religious person can help
so I am not religious but I have heard god will always forgive you of your sins
so if this guy asked for forgiveness would god have forgiven him?

no one here can answer that. that's between the individual and God, none of our business nor do we have the knowledge.

[paranoyd androyd]

i fukkin hate the media

and i fukkin hate facebook about 100 times more than the media

both are the absolute scourge of society.

i don't know anyone who supports or uses facebook anymore.

[InTheDrink]

both are the absolute scourge of society.

i don't know anyone who supports or uses facebook anymore.

remember when we used to laugh at the national enquirer?

sadly the national enquirer has been replaced by abc, nbc, cbs, cnn, fox, etc. and we seem to be okay with that

[SteelRain]

i fukkin hate the media

and i fukkin hate facebook about 100 times more than the media

media initially fingered the wrong guy and now he is getting death threats on facebook

[rfr3sh]

poor guy let the man mourn his mother (and brother i guess) death. shame on the media trying to be the first to ID this guy

[No coincidences]

remember when we used to laugh at the national enquirer?

sadly the national enquirer has been replaced by abc, nbc, cbs, cnn, fox, etc. and we seem to be okay with that

This.