Thx for the advice guys.
There will be a cost of living raise. Otherwise it wouldn't be affordable for us.
In lieu of this thread, I'm strongly leaning towards Seattle. Not sure how I would react to getting 6 chips with my queso. Here in in Oklahoma and down in Texas , we take out Tex-Mex very seriously.
I'll know for sure where by Sept 5th.
I won't miss the tornadoes. Nor the sub zero winters. Or 60+ straight days of 100 degree weather.
But there will be a lot here I do miss. Oklahoma is a great place that is only getting better. Highly recommended for anyone needing a nice place to live on a budget. Just get a storm cellar