Learned well have you, my padawan. Much to learn you still have.
You talked about Kelly betting. In its formula there is everything you need to learn about gambling. Do you remember the three variables in the formula?
1.- Fraction of bankroll. Two keywords here.
Fraction tells you about money management. You never bet your bankroll all-in. And
bankroll is way deeper than "money set aside to gamble". When you learn about it, you discover about money utility functions. Then you understand the difference between bankroll growth and expected win.
2.- Probability of winning the bet. The holy grail. If you are better than the market on calculating the probability of a win, you are very close to be a winning player. Beware! The field is full or corpses of people believing they could achieve it. Then you learn about modeling and backtesting. Hint: Do not try to beat the hardest markets (NFL spreads), you should start with softer ones, like obscure leagues and props.
3.- Odds offered. Nothing to see here, it is the line offered by the bookie, right? No. To be a winning bettor you should always shop for the best line. You must have money on many different books, that half point or 5 cents are worth a lot on the long run. Reduced juice and opinionated bookies are gold (too bad opinionated often means quick to limit
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